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setting boundaries worksheet: The Set Boundaries Workbook Nedra Glover Tawwab, 2021-12-14 An accessible, step-by-step resource for setting, communicating, and enforcing healthy boundaries at home, at work, and in life We all want to have healthy boundaries. But what does that really mean – and what steps are needed to implement them in our daily lives? Sought-after therapist and relationship expert Nedra Glover Tawwab presents clear explanations and interactive exercises to help you gain insight and then put it into action. Filled with thought-provoking checklists, questions, writing prompts, and more, The Set Boundaries Workbook is a valuable tool for everyone who wants to speak up for what they want and need, and show up more authentically in the world. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Set Boundaries, Find Peace Nedra Glover Tawwab, 2021-03-16 The instant New York Times bestseller End the struggle, speak up for what you need, and experience the freedom of being truly yourself. Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them--in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family. But what do healthy boundaries really mean--and how can we successfully express our needs, say no, and be assertive without offending others? Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert, and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today's world. In a relatable and inclusive tone, Set Boundaries, Find Peace presents simple-yet-powerful ways to establish healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Rooted in the latest research and best practices used in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), these techniques help us identify and express our needs clearly and without apology--and unravel a root problem behind codependency, power struggles, anxiety, depression, burnout, and more. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Not-So-Friendly Friend Christina Furnival, 2021-09-14 How can I help my child deal with a bully? What do I teach them about handling an on-again-off-again, not-so-friendly friend? My advice to just be kind isn't helping, and my child is still hurting. Christina Furnival, a licensed mental health therapist and mom, helps answer these questions in this charming and engaging rhyming story about a young child who successfully navigates the complexities of an unkind peer relationship. In The Not-So-Friendly Friend, children will learn an easy and practical lesson about how to firmly and assertively - yet kindly - stand up for themselves in the face of a bully. By teaching children about the importance and value of setting boundaries for healthy friendships, this book provides children the tools they need to foster their social confidence and emotional well-being. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundaries Henry Cloud, John Townsend, 2002-03-18 When to say yes, when to say no to take control of your life. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Better Boundaries Workbook Sharon Martin, 2021-11-01 Do you have trouble saying no, or constantly sacrifice your own needs to please others? If so, this evidence-based workbook will help you set healthy boundaries in all aspects of your life—without feeling guilty or afraid. If you find yourself feeling responsible for others’ happiness, worrying about letting people down, or struggling to speak up for yourself, you probably have difficulty setting healthy boundaries. Establishing clear personal boundaries is essential to creating and nurturing mutually respectful relationships based on equality. Setting limits can also protect you from getting involved in exploitative relationships, and help you avoid toxic personalities who don’t have your best interests at heart. This evidence-based workbook will show you how to set healthy boundaries across all aspects of life—without sacrificing your kindness or compassion for others. You’ll learn to define your boundaries and discover why they’re so important for your emotional well-being. You’ll also find a wealth of tips for maintaining boundaries in a constantly-connected world, strategies for what to do when people get upset or threatened by your assertiveness, and ways to make sure your needs are met. If you’re tired of feeling guilty or afraid of putting your mental and physical health first, are ready to take back control of your life, and create healthy and balanced relationships, this book will show you how to step up and set limits, assert yourself confidently, and realize your full potential. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundaries Workbook Henry Cloud, John Townsend, 2018-02-27 The New York Times bestselling book Boundaries has already helped millions understand that being a loving Christian doesn't mean you always have to say yes. Designed to help you create your own life-giving boundaries, Boundaries Workbook provides practical wisdom for setting boundaries in a highly connected digital age. This companion guide to Boundaries by Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provides practical readings and prompts that will encourage you and teach you how to set healthy, necessary boundaries with your parents, spouse, children, friends, bosses, coworkers, social media, and more in order to help you become the best version of yourself. Following the latest edition of Boundaries chapter-by-chapter, these interactive exercises are designed to help you take a closer look at your own life and ask yourself: Why do I feel guilty about setting clear boundaries? What if the boundaries I set hurt the other person? Why is it difficult for me to hear no from others? What are examples of legitimate boundaries I can set at work and at home? How can I have good boundaries online and with social media? Can I stay connected while still setting boundaries with my phone? Boundaries Workbook gives you the support and the Scripture you need to help others respect your boundaries--whether you want to improve your work-life balance or you're practicing saying no when someone asks you to volunteer for one more activity. Discover firsthand that having good, biblical boundaries gives you the freedom to live as the loving, generous, fulfilled person God created you to be. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Teen Relationship Workbook Kerry Moles, 2001 This workbook is for therapists, counselors, and other professionals working with young people to prevent or end relationship abuse. Designed to teach teens to recognize the warning signs in relationship abuse and develop skills for healthy relationships. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundaries in Marriage Henry Cloud, John Townsend, 2009-05-18 Learn when to say yes and how to say no in the context of your marriage relationship. In Boundaries in Marriage, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, counselors and authors of the New York Times bestseller Boundaries, teach us that healthy boundaries are the property lines that define and protect you and your spouse as individuals. Once you have them in place, a good marriage can become better, and a less-than-satisfying one can even be saved. Boundaries in Marriage will give you the tools and encouragement you need to: Set and maintain personal boundaries and respect those of your spouse Understand and practice two key ingredients to a successful marriage: freedom and responsibility Establish values that form a godly structure and architecture for your marriage Protect your marriage from different kinds of intruders Work with a spouse who understands and values boundaries--or with one who doesn't It's time to deepen your love by providing a better environment for it to flourish, and Drs. Cloud and Townsend are here to help. Discover how boundaries can make life better today! |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundary Boss Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW, 2021-04-20 Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Personal Space Camp Julia Cook, 2007-03-01 Teaching children the concepts of personal space. Louis is back! And this time, he's learning all about personal space. When Louis, the world's self-proclaimed space expert, is invited to Personal Space Camp by the school principal, he soon learns that personal space really isn't about lunar landings, Saturn's rings, or space ice cream. Written with style, wit, and rhythm, Personal Space Camp addresses the complex issue of respect for another person's physical boundaries. Told from Louis' perspective, this story is a must have resource for parents, teachers, and counselors who want to communicate the idea of personal space in a manner that connects with kids. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundaries in Marriage Workbook Henry Cloud, John Townsend, 2000 This is a companion workbook to Boundaries in Marriage that is filled with self-tests, questions, and applications. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Understanding the Journey Hilda R. Glazer, Myra Clark-Foster, 2019-07-03 The death of a loved one is a traumatic event for both adults and children. Grieving has no rules, no prescribed course, or expiration date. After a death, the feelings and experiences that follow can be extremely overwhelming and confusing. The authors of this book create a supportive environment that normalizes the phases of grief through clinical expertise, including a lifespan approach that indicates grief is certainly a journey from which none of us ever escapes nor perhaps reaches closure. This is an important work that addresses the spiritual, emotional, psychological, and physical aspects of a person’s grief. Specific topics include: the physical aspects of grief; anticipatory grief; grief through a child’s eyes; understanding grief and spirituality; counseling the bereaved adult; adult grief support groups; death in a military family; counseling grieving children and traumatic loss; messages of mourning; using art to facilitate a child’s expression of grief; and the importance of self-care. In addition, numerous case examples describing real-life experiences are discussed, helping to enhance coping and encourage healing. The text is further enhanced by an appendix containing a wealth of information that includes sample group activities. This book will be a significant resource for mental health professionals, grief counselors, human service providers, social workers, clergy, nurses, and lay volunteers. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Moving Beyond Betrayal Vicki Tidwell Palmer, 2016-05-16 A go-to guide on how to confront, heal from, and ultimately thrive after the devastation of betrayal by a partner's compulsive sexual or other addictive behavior The first book specifically for partners affected by addictive behavior that addresses, in detail, how to identify, create, and maintain boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for healing and growth. Through working the 5-Step Boundary Solution partners will gain clarity; reduce the chaos inherent in relationships impacted by sex addiction; feel more empowered and in control of their lives; discover whether or not their relationship with the addict is salvageable. Vicki Tidwell Palmer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) in private practice in Houston, Texas. She is the author of the blog for partners Survival Strategies for Partners of Sex Addicts. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Pathways to Healing -100 Therapeutic Worksheets for Schizophrenia and Schizoaffective Disorders:- Joann Rose Gregory, Pathways to Healing: 100 Therapeutic Worksheets for Schizophrenia and Schizoaffective Disorders Navigating the maze of schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorders can be a daunting endeavor, but with the right tools, the journey becomes not only manageable but also transformative. Schizophrenia and Schizoaffective Worksheets: A Collection of 100 Therapeutic Worksheets for Managing Schizophrenia serves as an essential compass, guiding individuals, caregivers, and therapists alike through the intricacies of mental well-being. This groundbreaking compilation transcends conventional approaches, offering meticulously curated worksheets designed to empower, enlighten, and evolve the way you understand and respond to schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorders. Whether you're a patient seeking to reclaim your life, a caregiver striving to support, or a therapist looking to enhance your practice, this book becomes an indispensable ally. Inside, you'll discover: Tailored Exercises: Each worksheet is fashioned with deep empathy and professional insight, addressing specific challenges and milestones. A Holistic Approach: Dive into diverse themes encompassing cognitive behavior therapy, mindfulness, positive psychology, and holistic well-being. Empowering Reflections: Engage with thought-provoking prompts that facilitate introspection, growth, and resilience. User-Friendly Format: Organized for easy navigation, the book can be used sequentially or as individual modules based on unique needs. Unlock the potential to transform adversity into strength. Dive into a journey of self-awareness, coping, and recovery with this bestseller – because everyone deserves a pathway to wellness. Key Highlights Schizophrenia Therapeutic Worksheets Guidebook Comprehensive Workbook for Schizophrenia Management Pathways to Well-Being: Schizophrenia Healing Strategies Mental Health Worksheets Tailored for Schizophrenia Patients Empowering Minds: Schizophrenia Self-Help Workbook 100 Structured Activities for Schizophrenia Wellness Guided Therapy Exercises for Schizophrenia Recovery |
setting boundaries worksheet: Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns Gitta Jacob, Hannie van Genderen, Laura Seebauer, 2015-03-16 Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns is the first schema-mode focused resource guide aimed at schema therapy patients and self-help readers seeking to understand and overcome negative patterns of thinking and behaviour. Represents the first resource for general readers on the mode approach to schema therapy Features a wealth of case studies that serve to clarify schemas and modes and illustrate techniques for overcoming dysfunctional modes and behavior patterns Offers a series of exercises that readers can immediately apply to real-world challenges and emotional problems as well as the complex difficulties typically tackled with schema therapy Includes original illustrations that demonstrate the modes and approaches in action, along with 20 self-help mode materials which are also available online Written by authors closely associated with the development of schema therapy and the schema mode approach |
setting boundaries worksheet: The ONE Thing Gary Keller, Jay Papasan, 2013-04-01 • More than 500 appearances on national bestseller lists • #1 Wall Street Journal, New York Times, and USA Today • Won 12 book awards • Translated into 35 languages • Voted Top 100 Business Book of All Time on Goodreads People are using this simple, powerful concept to focus on what matters most in their personal and work lives. Companies are helping their employees be more productive with study groups, training, and coaching. Sales teams are boosting sales. Churches are conducting classes and recommending for their members. By focusing their energy on one thing at a time people are living more rewarding lives by building their careers, strengthening their finances, losing weight and getting in shape, deepening their faith, and nurturing stronger marriages and personal relationships. YOU WANT LESS. You want fewer distractions and less on your plate. The daily barrage of e-mails, texts, tweets, messages, and meetings distract you and stress you out. The simultaneous demands of work and family are taking a toll. And what's the cost? Second-rate work, missed deadlines, smaller paychecks, fewer promotions--and lots of stress. AND YOU WANT MORE. You want more productivity from your work. More income for a better lifestyle. You want more satisfaction from life, and more time for yourself, your family, and your friends. NOW YOU CAN HAVE BOTH — LESS AND MORE. In The ONE Thing, you'll learn to * cut through the clutter * achieve better results in less time * build momentum toward your goal* dial down the stress * overcome that overwhelmed feeling * revive your energy * stay on track * master what matters to you The ONE Thing delivers extraordinary results in every area of your life--work, personal, family, and spiritual. WHAT'S YOUR ONE THING? |
setting boundaries worksheet: Setting Boundaries® with Difficult People Allison Bottke, 2011-10-01 Continuing her popular Setting Boundaries® series, Allison Bottke offer her distinctive “Six Steps to SANITY” to readers who must deal with difficult people. S…Stop your own negative behavior A…Assemble a support group N…Nip excuses in the bud I…Implement rules and boundaries T….Trust your instincts Y…Yield everything to God Whether it’s a spouse, in-law, boss, coworker, family member, neighbor, or friend, readers who have allowed others to overstep their boundaries will learn how these six steps can help them reset those boundaries and take back their life…for good. Setting Boundaries® with Difficult People is designed to inspire, empower, and equip readers with the tools to transform lives. |
setting boundaries worksheet: 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth Craig James Langston, 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth is an empowering, compassionate guide designed to support individuals on their journey to recovery. With 100 thoughtfully crafted worksheets, this workbook offers practical tools, insightful exercises, and proven therapeutic techniques that promote self-understanding, resilience, and long-term healing. Structured into key sections that address each phase of recovery, this workbook guides readers through self-reflective exercises on topics such as identifying eating disorder patterns, managing triggers, building emotional resilience, developing healthy relationships, and creating balanced routines. Each worksheet is based on methods from cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and mindfulness practices, making the book a valuable companion for individuals working independently or as a supplement to professional therapy. Ideal for those looking to break free from disordered eating, 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth provides readers with the tools to create sustainable change. The exercises within these pages foster self-compassion, encourage positive habits, and empower individuals to reclaim a balanced, fulfilling life. This workbook is also an excellent resource for therapists, counselors, and mental health professionals seeking to support clients on their path to recovery. Inside this book, you’ll find: Worksheets that guide you through self-awareness, emotional healing, and personal growth Practical exercises to support daily routines, goal-setting, and healthy coping strategies Step-by-step guidance on building a strong support network and setting healthy boundaries Tools for managing stress, reducing anxiety, and promoting mindful habits Reflection prompts that inspire personal insight and foster self-compassion Whether you’re beginning your journey or looking to reinforce your progress, 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth offers a supportive, structured approach to healing. Embrace this workbook as a partner in recovery, designed to empower you with the skills and resilience needed to build a life beyond disordered eating. Start your path to self-healing and resilience today. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Happiness Trap Russ Harris, 2013 A guide to ACT: the revolutionary mindfulness-based program for reducing stress, overcoming fear, and finding fulfilment – now updated. International bestseller, 'The Happiness Trap', has been published in over thirty countries and twenty-two languages. NOW UPDATED. Popular ideas about happiness are misleading, inaccurate, and are directly contributing to our current epidemic of stress, anxiety and depression. And unfortunately, popular psychological approaches are making it even worse! In this easy-to-read, practical and empowering self-help book, Dr Russ Harries, reveals how millions of people are unwittingly caught in the 'The Happiness Trap', where the more they strive for happiness the more they suffer in the long term. He then provides an effective means to escape through the insights and techniques of ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), a groundbreaking new approach based on mindfulness skills. By clarifying your values and developing mindfulness (a technique for living fully in the present moment), ACT helps you escape the happiness trap and find true satisfaction in life. Mindfulness skills are easy to learn and will rapidly and effectively help you to reduce stress, enhance performance, manage emotions, improve health, increase vitality, and generally change your life for the better. The book provides scientifically proven techniques to: reduce stress and worry; rise above fear, doubt and insecurity; handle painful thoughts and feelings far more effectively; break self-defeating habits; improve performance and find fulfilment in your work; build more satisfying relationships; and, create a rich, full and meaningful life. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundaries Val J. Peter, Tom Dowd, 2000-01-01 This book invites teens to examine their lives and relationships within a religious context. It begins by helping you define what physical, emotional, spiritual, and sexual boundaries are. Stories of other teens illustrate how personal space and feelings can be either respected or violated in relationships with others. The book's journal format encourages you to reflect on and record feelings about your own relationships. Do people respect your boundaries? Has anyone ever made you feel uncomfortable in some way? Have you ever felt manipulated, intimidated, or mistreated by someone you regarded as a friend? How can you get a friendship that has gone wrong back on track? Use Boundaries: A Guide for Teens to help assess your relationships with family, friends, classmates, and God. Learn how to build close and satisfying friendships while guarding against being used or abused by others. Learn what it takes for you to be a good friend in return. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Better Boundaries Jan Black, 1998-05 Knowing when your personal boundaries are violated--and what to do about it when they are--isn't a simple skill.--Cover. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook Anneliese A. Singh, 2018-02-02 How can you build unshakable confidence and resilience in a world still filled with ignorance, inequality, and discrimination? The Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook will teach you how to challenge internalized negative messages, handle stress, build a community of support, and embrace your true self. Resilience is a key ingredient for psychological health and wellness. It’s what gives people the psychological strength to cope with everyday stress, as well as major setbacks. For many people, stressful events may include job loss, financial problems, illness, natural disasters, medical emergencies, divorce, or the death of a loved one. But if you are queer or gender non-conforming, life stresses may also include discrimination in housing and health care, employment barriers, homelessness, family rejection, physical attacks or threats, and general unfair treatment and oppression—all of which lead to overwhelming feelings of hopelessness and powerlessness. So, how can you gain resilience in a society that is so often toxic and unwelcoming? In this important workbook, you’ll discover how to cultivate the key components of resilience: holding a positive view of yourself and your abilities; knowing your worth and cultivating a strong sense of self-esteem; effectively utilizing resources; being assertive and creating a support community; fostering hope and growth within yourself, and finding the strength to help others. Once you know how to tap into your personal resilience, you’ll have an unlimited well you can draw from to navigate everyday challenges. By learning to challenge internalized negative messages and remove obstacles from your life, you can build the resilience you need to embrace your truest self in an imperfect world. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Social Rules for Kids Susan Diamond, 2011 Many parents are not sure of what to say and do to help their children improve their social interactions. Social Rules for Kids - The Top 100 Social Rules Kids Need to Succeed helps open the door of communication between parent and child by addressing 100 social rules for home, school, and the community. Using simple, easy-to-follow rules covering topics such as body language, manners, feelings and more, this book aims to make students lives easier and more successful by outlining specific ways to interact with others on a daily basis. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Fair Play Eve Rodsky, 2021-01-05 AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A REESE'S BOOK CLUB PICK Tired, stressed, and in need of more help from your partner? Imagine running your household (and life!) in a new way... It started with the Sh*t I Do List. Tired of being the “shefault” parent responsible for all aspects of her busy household, Eve Rodsky counted up all the unpaid, invisible work she was doing for her family—and then sent that list to her husband, asking for things to change. His response was...underwhelming. Rodsky realized that simply identifying the issue of unequal labor on the home front wasn't enough: She needed a solution to this universal problem. Her sanity, identity, career, and marriage depended on it. The result is Fair Play: a time- and anxiety-saving system that offers couples a completely new way to divvy up domestic responsibilities. Rodsky interviewed more than five hundred men and women from all walks of life to figure out what the invisible work in a family actually entails and how to get it all done efficiently. With 4 easy-to-follow rules, 100 household tasks, and a series of conversation starters for you and your partner, Fair Play helps you prioritize what's important to your family and who should take the lead on every chore, from laundry to homework to dinner. “Winning” this game means rebalancing your home life, reigniting your relationship with your significant other, and reclaiming your Unicorn Space—the time to develop the skills and passions that keep you interested and interesting. Stop drowning in to-dos and lose some of that invisible workload that's pulling you down. Are you ready to try Fair Play? Let's deal you in. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Assertiveness Guide for Women Julie de Azevedo Hanks, 2016-08-01 Isn’t it time you took a stand? Many women struggle with assertiveness, but if you’re prone to anxiety and avoidance, it is especially difficult. Grounded in attachment theory, this essential guide will help you identify your thoughts and feelings, balance your emotions, communicate your needs, and set healthy boundaries to improve your life. When you’re assertive, you’re able to communicate your needs and wishes clearly while respecting yourself and anyone else involved in the interaction. But when you aren’t assertive, you may stop yourself from saying anything when your needs aren’t being met, or end up lashing out in hostile or hurtful ways. People with different attachment styles struggle with being assertive for different reasons, and even women with a secure attachment style may have difficulty expressing emotion when faced with challenging circumstances. Using strategies based in mindfulness, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), The Assertiveness Guide for Women can help you understand the attachment styles that keep you from asserting yourself. You’ll learn about the three communication stances—from the passive Doormat to the aggressive (or passive-aggressive) Sword to the assertive Lantern—and find practical examples that show you how to apply your new communication and emotional awareness skills in your own life. Rather than being caught in a cycle of rumination and regret when you’re unable to express yourself or even acknowledge your own needs, you’ll be ready to assert yourself and get what you want. Whether you’re anxious and overwhelmed by the intensity of your emotions, avoidant and struggle to identify your emotions, or otherwise have difficulty expressing yourself, this book will help you become more aware of your own thoughts and feelings, and empower you to ask for what you need, set boundaries, and speak your truth for a more fulfilling life. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Light Shift Elizabeth Campbell, 2024-07-09 This book is for those whose sense of self-worth has been damaged within a church that, despite its efforts to share God’s Word, may fall short of the truth of His love. Whether you are a survivor of religious abuse looking to overcome your lingering trauma, or simply struggle to love yourself in a world full of everyone else’s judgements, this book is here to remind you of a truth you may have forgotten. God made you exactly as you are, and He loves you exactly as you are, even if past experiences have shaken your faith, this book is here to remind you of God's enduring love. You are worthy, and you deserve to feel worthy. Light Shift is an examination of religious trauma and the journey of recovery that sits on the intersection of psychotherapy and spirituality. • Learn to nurture your body, mind, and spirit, using both scriptural principles and psychological methods. • Understand and overcome what stands between you and loving your beautiful, flawed, authentic self. • Learn resiliency skills that will arm you against life’s challenges. • Embrace your innate worth through the eyes of God. • Reclaim your relationship with yourself and your all-loving Creator. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Kind Earth Cookbook Anastasia Eden, 2019-08 The Kind Earth Cookbook is a plant-based journey of extraordinary culinary delight where you'll find energising breakfasts, delectable snacks, vibrant salads, nourishing dips, scrumptious vegan burgers, main meals that everyone will love, and desserts to delight your soul. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Dare to Lead Brené Brown, 2018-10-09 #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Brené Brown has taught us what it means to dare greatly, rise strong, and brave the wilderness. Now, based on new research conducted with leaders, change makers, and culture shifters, she’s showing us how to put those ideas into practice so we can step up and lead. Don’t miss the five-part Max docuseries Brené Brown: Atlas of the Heart! ONE OF BLOOMBERG’S BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR Leadership is not about titles, status, and wielding power. A leader is anyone who takes responsibility for recognizing the potential in people and ideas, and has the courage to develop that potential. When we dare to lead, we don’t pretend to have the right answers; we stay curious and ask the right questions. We don’t see power as finite and hoard it; we know that power becomes infinite when we share it with others. We don’t avoid difficult conversations and situations; we lean into vulnerability when it’s necessary to do good work. But daring leadership in a culture defined by scarcity, fear, and uncertainty requires skill-building around traits that are deeply and uniquely human. The irony is that we’re choosing not to invest in developing the hearts and minds of leaders at the exact same time as we’re scrambling to figure out what we have to offer that machines and AI can’t do better and faster. What can we do better? Empathy, connection, and courage, to start. Four-time #1 New York Times bestselling author Brené Brown has spent the past two decades studying the emotions and experiences that give meaning to our lives, and the past seven years working with transformative leaders and teams spanning the globe. She found that leaders in organizations ranging from small entrepreneurial startups and family-owned businesses to nonprofits, civic organizations, and Fortune 50 companies all ask the same question: How do you cultivate braver, more daring leaders, and how do you embed the value of courage in your culture? In Dare to Lead, Brown uses research, stories, and examples to answer these questions in the no-BS style that millions of readers have come to expect and love. Brown writes, “One of the most important findings of my career is that daring leadership is a collection of four skill sets that are 100 percent teachable, observable, and measurable. It’s learning and unlearning that requires brave work, tough conversations, and showing up with your whole heart. Easy? No. Because choosing courage over comfort is not always our default. Worth it? Always. We want to be brave with our lives and our work. It’s why we’re here.” Whether you’ve read Daring Greatly and Rising Strong or you’re new to Brené Brown’s work, this book is for anyone who wants to step up and into brave leadership. |
setting boundaries worksheet: DBT? Skills Training Manual, Second Edition Marsha Linehan, 2014-10-20 Preceded by: Skills training manual for treating borderline personality disorder / Marsha M. Linehan. c1993. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Where to Draw the Line Anne Katherine, 2012-09-25 From the acclaimed author of the perennial favorite Boundaries, Where to Draw the Line is a practical guide to establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries in many different situations. With every encounter, we either demonstrate that we’ll protect what we value or that we’ll give ourselves away. Healthy boundaries preserve our integrity. Unlike defenses, which isolate us from our true selves and from those we love, boundaries filter out harm. This book provides the tools and insights needed to create boundaries so that we can allow time and energy for the things that matter—and helps break down limiting defenses that stunt personal growth. Focusing on every facet of daily life—from friendships and sexual relationships to dress and appearance to money, food, and psychotherapy—Katherine presents case studies highlighting the ways in which individuals violate their own boundaries or let other people breach them. Using real-life examples, from self-sacrificing mothers to obsessive neat freaks, she offers specific advice on making choices that balance one’s own needs with the needs of others. Boundaries are the unseen structures that support healthy, productive lives. Where to Draw the Line shows readers how to strengthen them and hold them in place every day. |
setting boundaries worksheet: A Bug and a Wish Karen Scheuer, 2018-11-16 When Tyler is teased by the other boys, his good friend, Danae, encourages him to give the boys A Bug and a Wish. When Tyler finds a ladybug and a dandelion seed, he is convinced that this is what Danae means. As his friend helps him learn the true meaning of her advice, Tyler soon discovers the solution to his problem. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The Big Book of Conflict Resolution Games: Quick, Effective Activities to Improve Communication, Trust and Collaboration Mary Scannell, 2010-05-28 Make workplace conflict resolution a game that EVERYBODY wins! Recent studies show that typical managers devote more than a quarter of their time to resolving coworker disputes. The Big Book of Conflict-Resolution Games offers a wealth of activities and exercises for groups of any size that let you manage your business (instead of managing personalities). Part of the acclaimed, bestselling Big Books series, this guide offers step-by-step directions and customizable tools that empower you to heal rifts arising from ineffective communication, cultural/personality clashes, and other specific problem areas—before they affect your organization's bottom line. Let The Big Book of Conflict-Resolution Games help you to: Build trust Foster morale Improve processes Overcome diversity issues And more Dozens of physical and verbal activities help create a safe environment for teams to explore several common forms of conflict—and their resolution. Inexpensive, easy-to-implement, and proved effective at Fortune 500 corporations and mom-and-pop businesses alike, the exercises in The Big Book of Conflict-Resolution Games delivers everything you need to make your workplace more efficient, effective, and engaged. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Excel Hacks David Hawley, Raina Hawley, 2007-06-20 Millions of users create and share Excel spreadsheets every day, but few go deeply enough to learn the techniques that will make their work much easier. There are many ways to take advantage of Excel's advanced capabilities without spending hours on advanced study. Excel Hacks provides more than 130 hacks -- clever tools, tips and techniques -- that will leapfrog your work beyond the ordinary. Now expanded to include Excel 2007, this resourceful, roll-up-your-sleeves guide gives you little known backdoor tricks for several Excel versions using different platforms and external applications. Think of this book as a toolbox. When a need arises or a problem occurs, you can simply use the right tool for the job. Hacks are grouped into chapters so you can find what you need quickly, including ways to: Reduce workbook and worksheet frustration -- manage how users interact with worksheets, find and highlight information, and deal with debris and corruption. Analyze and manage data -- extend and automate these features, moving beyond the limited tasks they were designed to perform. Hack names -- learn not only how to name cells and ranges, but also how to create names that adapt to the data in your spreadsheet. Get the most out of PivotTables -- avoid the problems that make them frustrating and learn how to extend them. Create customized charts -- tweak and combine Excel's built-in charting capabilities. Hack formulas and functions -- subjects range from moving formulas around to dealing with datatype issues to improving recalculation time. Make the most of macros -- including ways to manage them and use them to extend other features. Use the enhanced capabilities of Microsoft Office 2007 to combine Excel with Word, Access, and Outlook. You can either browse through the book or read it from cover to cover, studying the procedures and scripts to learn more about Excel. However you use it, Excel Hacks will help you increase productivity and give you hours of hacking enjoyment along the way. |
setting boundaries worksheet: The CBT Workbook for Mental Health Alberta James , Tina Lloyds, 2024-03-01 The CBT Workbook for Mental Health Packed with real Life Examples and Worksheets The CBT Workbook for Mental Health: The Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, and Negative Thought Patterns is an invaluable, practical, and accessible guide that navigates the complex landscape of mental health, providing insight, understanding, and effective tools to create positive change. This book delves into the essence of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), a scientifically backed approach that has proven effective in treating a multitude of mental health disorders. This book presents CBT not just as a method but as a journey of understanding and transforming one's mindset, leading to improved mental health and overall well-being. The book begins by creating a foundation of understanding around mental health, its importance, and the various types of mental health disorders that individuals may encounter in their lives. It establishes the fact that mental health is as crucial as physical health and that everyone, to some extent, can benefit from learning about it. Following this foundational groundwork, the book introduces the reader to CBT, tracing its origins and development, explaining its underlying principles, and highlighting its benefits and limitations. The information is presented in an easy-to-understand format, free from excessive jargon, making it accessible to all, regardless of their prior knowledge of psychology or therapy. The heart of this guide is the exploration of the core principles of CBT. It explains the critical relationship between our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, elucidating how a change in any one element can significantly impact the other two. Readers are provided with practical tools to observe, understand, and alter their thoughts and behaviors, thereby influencing their emotions and responses to various life situations. The book then focuses on specific mental health disorders such as anxiety, depression, trauma, and OCD, providing detailed explanations of these disorders, their symptoms, and their impact. It explains how CBT strategies can be specifically applied to manage and overcome these disorders, making this book a potent resource for individuals grappling with these conditions. To ensure that readers can apply the principles and strategies learned, the book provides interactive, practical, and well-structured worksheets. These worksheets act as tools for individuals to implement CBT techniques in their lives, allowing them to challenge their negative thought patterns, confront their fears, and effectively manage their emotions. As it progresses, the guide also explains the role of mindfulness in CBT, demonstrating how the practice of mindfulness complements CBT to bring about significant, positive changes. Practical mindfulness techniques and exercises are provided to enhance mental health further and solidify the effects of CBT. In the final chapters, the book offers additional resources, including recommended books, articles, websites, and apps, along with details of professional organizations and support groups. These resources serve to further aid and support individuals on their journey toward better mental health. The CBT Workbook for Mental Health: The Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, and Negative Thought Patterns is more than a book. It is a comprehensive mental health toolkit, designed to empower its readers with knowledge, practical skills, and the confidence to take charge of their mental health and steer their lives towards positivity and fulfillment. Whether you are an individual dealing with mental health issues, a caregiver, a mental health professional, or simply someone interested in improving your mental well-being, this book is a priceless asset that paves the way to understanding, managing, and overcoming the challenges of mental health disorders. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Boundaries in Dating Workbook Henry Cloud, John Townsend, 2000 Cloud and Townsend apply their award-winning boundaries concepts to the dating relationship. This workbook helps readers work through the principles in Boundaries in Dating to make the dating arena a more satisfying, productive one. Those in the dating phase can learn to enjoy its benefits to the fullest, increasing their ability to find and commit to a marriage partner. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Worthy of Her Trust Stephen Arterburn, Jason B. Martinkus, 2014-08-19 You Can Win Her Back Few challenges in life are as difficult as regaining a wife’s trust—and few are as ultimately worthwhile. Trust can be rebuilt in your marriage! With patient, loving, self-sacrificing effort, it’s possible that one day your wife will risk her heart with you again. And she may even have more respect and love for you than before. In Worthy of Her Trust, Jason Martinkus relates how he repaired his own marriage after revelations of sexual addiction. Along with Stephen Arterburn, Jason offers exercises and tools rooted in counseling principles to help your marriage begin again. This comprehensive guide discusses: · How to be truly and effectively transparent · Combating the “he must not love me” myth and other untruths · What to do about the Internet, office temptations, and travel · Encouragement for wives who wonder if trust can ever be restored · The “five-minute phone call” and other daily trust-building strategies · What meaningful forgiveness and restitution look like · The Amends Matrix—a concrete exercise to admit past wrongs and cast a vision for a faithful future Including insights from Jason’s wife, Shelley, Worthy of Her Trust guides you through the process of rebuilding your relationship so it is stronger than ever. |
setting boundaries worksheet: A Volcano in My Tummy Eliane Whitehouse, Warwick Pudney, 1996-01-01 A Volcano in My Tummy: Helping Children to Handle Anger presents a clear and effective approach to helping children and adults alike understand and deal constructively with children's anger. Using easy to understand yet rarely taught skills for anger management, including how to teach communication of emotions, A Volcano in My Tummy offers engaging, well-organized activities which help to overcome the fear of children's anger which many adult care-givers experience. By carefully distinguishing between anger the feeling, and violence the behavior, this accessible little book, primarily created for ages 6 to thirteen, helps to create an awareness of anger, enabling children to relate creatively and harmoniously at critical stages in their development. Through activities, stories, articles, and games designed to allow a multi-subject, developmental approach to the topic at home and in school, A Volcano in My Tummy gives us the tools we need to put aside our problems with this all-too-often destructive emotion, and to have fun while we're at it. Elaine Whitehouse is a teacher, family court and private psychotherapist, mother of two and leader of parenting skills workshops for eight years. Warwick Pudney is a teacher and counsellor with ten years experience facilitating anger management, abuser therapy and men's change groups, as well as being a father of three. Both regularly conduct workshops. |
setting boundaries worksheet: How to Solve Our Human Problems Geshe Kelsang Gyatso, 2007-02 Guiding readers in learning how to respond to difficult situations with a positive, peaceful mind, this resource educates on how to turn challenges into opportunities for mental and spiritual growth and development. |
setting boundaries worksheet: Empowered Boundaries Cristien Storm, 2018-09-18 Strengthen relationships, build more resilient communities, and develop a stronger emotional toolbox Explaining power and privilege and the links between individual safety and community safety, Cristien Storm shows readers how to set emotional boundaries that build vibrant social movements and a better world for all. As there have been increases in violence against women, people of color, immigrants, and LGBTQI-identified people, there has been a corresponding demand for individual and community self-defense, boundary setting, and bystander trainings. Boundary setting can be used not just as a means for personal safety but as form of solidarity, resistance, and inspiration. From saying no to a boss who always asks you to work late, to setting a boundary with a loved one, to navigating an uncomfortable situation at the bus stop, Cristien Storm offers a new approach to verbal boundary setting that is accessible for all bodies and identities. Practical in scope, the book includes tools, tips, and strategies from Storm's decades of experience leading boundary-setting workshops. Grounded in resiliency and trauma-informed theory, Storm pays particular attention to the experiences of women, people of color, immigrants, and LQBTQI-identified people, making this necessary reading for anyone looking to create healthier relationships and build stronger communities. |
setting boundaries worksheet: ACT with Love Russ Harris, 2023-06-01 Build more compassionate, accepting, and loving relationships with acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). Let’s face it: Picture-perfect storybook romances don’t exist in real life. Couples fight. Feelings of love wax and wane through the years. And the stress and tedium of everyday life and work can often drive a wedge between even the most devoted couples. So, how can you reignite passion and intimacy in your relationship, cultivate greater understanding and compassion between yourself and your partner, and bring the joy back to your love life? In this fully revised and updated edition of ACT with Love, therapist and world-renowned ACT expert Russ Harris shows how developing psychological flexibility—the ability to be in the present moment with openness, awareness, and focus, and to take effective action in line with one's values—can help you and your partner strengthen and deepen your relationship. Also included is new information on attachment theory, powerful mindfulness and self-compassion techniques, and assertiveness and boundary-setting skills. ACT with Love will show you how to: Let go of conflict, open up, and live fully in the present Use mindfulness to increase intimacy, connection, and understanding Resolve painful conflicts and reconcile long-standing differences Act on your values to build a rich and meaningful relationship If you’re looking to increase feelings of intimacy, love, and connection with your partner, this book has everything you need to get started—together. |
Setting Boundaries - Therapist Aid
Boundaries should be based on your values, or the things that are important to you. For example, if you value spending time with family, set firm boundaries about working late.
What is currently causing me stress or unease? - Choosing Therapy
By identifying your needs and limits, you can communicate more effectively, protect your well-being, and build stronger relationships. Use this worksheet to explore your boundaries and …
WORKSHEET: SETTING BOUNDARIES
SETTING BOUNDARIES: HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES SO YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS It’s incredibly helpful to sit back every now and then and think about the boundaries you need …
Setting Boundaries Worksheet
Reflect on how setting and maintaining these boundaries will contribute to your well-being and self-care routine. How will it help reduce stress, improve relationships, or enhance your overall …
Setting Healthy Personal Boundaries with Family Members
Here are steps of what to do when setting boundaries with family. 1. Identify how you want to interact and what is OK (and not OK). Identify what you need. Your needs are just as …
Peachey Resources Setting Boundaries Worksheet
Boundaries—which can be POrOUS, healthy, or rigid—may differ from relationship to relationship. The purpose of this worksheet is to: To introduce you to the differences between different …
Setting Healthy Boundaries: This IS Self-Care! - Trauma Practice for ...
Setting Healthy Boundaries: This IS Self-Care! Steps: 1. Decide what the boundary you need is 2. Practice what you need to say before you say it 3. Have support in place before and after your …
Setting and Maintaining Boundaries - Change To Chill
Remaining direct, honest and respectful is key to setting healthy boundaries. It will allow you to feel safe in your environment and serves as a way to exhibit self-respect, thereby increasing …
Setting Boundaries Worksheet - carepatron.com
Set and manage clear limits regarding client boundaries with our free worksheets. Empower clients to step away and create effective action plans that promote higher respect, self-esteem, …
Setting Boundaries Worksheet - Explorable
This worksheet will help you think about the boundaries you want and need to set in your everyday life. It will ask you to think about your rights, and how you can use them as a …
Boundary Setting Worksheet
If you have difficulty recognizing a need for or setting firm boundaries, reaching out to a helping pro-fessional such as a counselor can be very beneficial. NOTE: Boundaries for those who …
Setting Boundaries with Yourself Worksheet - Ineffable Living
Setting boundaries with yourself is crucial for creating guidelines for your behavior and habits to protect your well-being and personal growth. It helps you maintain balance, avoid burnout, and …
Boundaries 101 - Worksheet - Squarespace
There are five main types of boundaries: emotional, relational, physical, energy, and time. why do we need boundaries? Boundaries, at their simplest, are really just a form of communication. …
SETTING AND MAINTAINING BOUNDARIES - Active Recovery
SETTING AND MAINTAINING BOUNDARIES When we have healthy personal boundaries, we can accept positive people and actions in our lives, but protect ourselves from those that are …
HANDOUT 1 Setting Boundaries in Relationships - Treatment …
Setting good boundaries prevents extremes in relationships. By setting boundaries, you can avoid painful extremes: too close versus too distant, giving too much versus too little, idealizing …
Healthy Boundaries In Relationships Worksheet - Webflow
Instructions: This worksheet is designed to help you explore and establish healthy boundaries in your relationships. Please take your time to reflect on each section and provide honest …
Boundaries Around Arguing How to Set Healthy - Choosing Therapy
set healthy boundaries to manage arguments in your relationships. By identifying your needs and limits, you can communicate more effectively, protect your well-being, and build stronger, …
Developing Healthy Personal Boundaries - Between Sessions
You can use this worksheet to help you think about your personal boundaries and the things you can do differently in your relationships. The following are statements that reflect a positive …
What are Personal Boundaries? - Therapist Aid
Personal boundaries are the limits and rules we set for ourselves within relationships. A person with healthy boundaries can say “no” to others when they want to, but they are also …
Boundaries Discussion Questions - Therapist Aid
Personal boundaries are the rules and limits you set within relationships. They tell you what’s okay, and what’s not okay, in a relationship. Think about two people in your life, and describe …
Setting Boundaries - Therapist Aid
Boundaries should be based on your values, or the things that are important to you. For example, if you value spending time with family, set firm boundaries about working late.
What is currently causing me stress or unease? - Choosing Therapy
By identifying your needs and limits, you can communicate more effectively, protect your well-being, and build stronger relationships. Use this worksheet to explore your boundaries and develop strategies for maintaining them. Inside the circle, write everything that makes you feel relaxed and safe.
WORKSHEET: SETTING BOUNDARIES
SETTING BOUNDARIES: HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES SO YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS It’s incredibly helpful to sit back every now and then and think about the boundaries you need to set in your life in order to stay energised and achieve your goals. Use the questions below to reflect on what boundaries you might want to put in place.
Setting Boundaries Worksheet
Reflect on how setting and maintaining these boundaries will contribute to your well-being and self-care routine. How will it help reduce stress, improve relationships, or enhance your overall quality of life? Remember, this worksheet is a guide to help you navigate the process of setting and enforcing boundaries.
Setting Healthy Personal Boundaries with Family Members
Here are steps of what to do when setting boundaries with family. 1. Identify how you want to interact and what is OK (and not OK). Identify what you need. Your needs are just as important as your loved ones’ needs. 2. Directly and clearly communicate your boundary. Be specific.
Peachey Resources Setting Boundaries Worksheet
Boundaries—which can be POrOUS, healthy, or rigid—may differ from relationship to relationship. The purpose of this worksheet is to: To introduce you to the differences between different boundary types To help you understand healthy boundaries To help you identify how you can create healthy boundaries to form
Setting Healthy Boundaries: This IS Self-Care! - Trauma Practice …
Setting Healthy Boundaries: This IS Self-Care! Steps: 1. Decide what the boundary you need is 2. Practice what you need to say before you say it 3. Have support in place before and after your boundary conversation 4. Use simple and direct language to communicate your boundary. 5. Back up your boundary with action. 6.
Setting and Maintaining Boundaries - Change To Chill
Remaining direct, honest and respectful is key to setting healthy boundaries. It will allow you to feel safe in your environment and serves as a way to exhibit self-respect, thereby increasing the respect shown to you by others. The seven steps below outline different approaches to using assertive communication to set boundaries with others.
Setting Boundaries Worksheet - carepatron.com
Set and manage clear limits regarding client boundaries with our free worksheets. Empower clients to step away and create effective action plans that promote higher respect, self-esteem, and self-awareness.
Setting Boundaries Worksheet - Explorable
This worksheet will help you think about the boundaries you want and need to set in your everyday life. It will ask you to think about your rights, and how you can use them as a foundation for setting your boundaries.
Boundary Setting Worksheet
If you have difficulty recognizing a need for or setting firm boundaries, reaching out to a helping pro-fessional such as a counselor can be very beneficial. NOTE: Boundaries for those who have experienced trauma and/or abuse may be difficult to set but vital for healthy relationships.
Setting Boundaries with Yourself Worksheet - Ineffable Living
Setting boundaries with yourself is crucial for creating guidelines for your behavior and habits to protect your well-being and personal growth. It helps you maintain balance, avoid burnout, and stay focused on your priorities. 1. Reflect on areas of your life where you often feel overwhelmed or stressed. What are they?
Boundaries 101 - Worksheet - Squarespace
There are five main types of boundaries: emotional, relational, physical, energy, and time. why do we need boundaries? Boundaries, at their simplest, are really just a form of communication. When you set a boundary, you are letting the other person …
HANDOUT 1 Setting Boundaries in Relationships - Treatment …
Setting good boundaries prevents extremes in relationships. By setting boundaries, you can avoid painful extremes: too close versus too distant, giving too much versus too little, idealizing versus devaluing others.
SETTING AND MAINTAINING BOUNDARIES - Active Recovery
SETTING AND MAINTAINING BOUNDARIES When we have healthy personal boundaries, we can accept positive people and actions in our lives, but protect ourselves from those that are harmful. In trying to protect our-selves, we may have learned not to trust anyone or allow anyone to get close emotionally.
Healthy Boundaries In Relationships Worksheet - Webflow
Instructions: This worksheet is designed to help you explore and establish healthy boundaries in your relationships. Please take your time to reflect on each section and provide honest responses.
Boundaries Around Arguing How to Set Healthy - Choosing …
set healthy boundaries to manage arguments in your relationships. By identifying your needs and limits, you can communicate more effectively, protect your well-being, and build stronger, healthier relationships. Use this worksheet to explore your boundaries and develop strategies for maintaining them. Asking if I am ready to have a tough ...
What are Personal Boundaries? - Therapist Aid
Personal boundaries are the limits and rules we set for ourselves within relationships. A person with healthy boundaries can say “no” to others when they want to, but they are also comfortable opening themselves up to intimacy and close relationships.
Boundaries Discussion Questions - Therapist Aid
Personal boundaries are the rules and limits you set within relationships. They tell you what’s okay, and what’s not okay, in a relationship. Think about two people in your life, and describe the boundaries you have with each one. How are they similar, and how are they different?
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Boundaries are the energetic barriers that help us stay connected, in tune, and in alignment with ourselves. They cultivate healthy relationships and attachments, and they prevent you from extending yourself beyond your limits. Who are the people that Who are the people that you constantly give to? give/take equally? 1. 2. 3.