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| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Group Activities for Families in Recovery Joan Zimmerman, Jon L. Winek, 2012-12-11 Group Activities for Families in Recovery offers therapists a wealth of activities designed to help families struggling with addiction address problem areas of functioning, and ultimately shift from dysfunctional patterns to healthy living. Written by expert practitioners in family-oriented substance abuse treatment, this text focuses on group therapy as a key component to treatment. The activities are varied and include topics presented through expressive arts (drawing, writing, acting), game-playing, problem solving, enactments, worksheets, and roleplaying. The activities can be used individually, incorporated into another program, or stand alone as a 16-week (or longer) program. They can also be adapted for use in groups where children or present, or for adult-family groups. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: What Makes Love Last? John Gottman, John Mordechai Gottman, Nan Silver, 2013-09-10 One of the foremost relationship experts at work today offers creative insight on building trust and avoiding betrayal, helping readers to decode the mysteries of healthy love and relationships-- |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Teen Relationship Workbook Kerry Moles, 2001 This workbook is for therapists, counselors, and other professionals working with young people to prevent or end relationship abuse. Designed to teach teens to recognize the warning signs in relationship abuse and develop skills for healthy relationships. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Rebuilding Trust in the Workplace Dennis S. Reina, Michelle L. Reina, 2010-10-03 An expert guide to resolving coworker conflicts and healing hurt feelings and resentments, to create a more productive—and pleasant—environment. Are you feeling less engaged, less committed, and more skeptical at work? Do you find yourself isolated? Or are you caught in the middle of co-workers’ interpersonal conflicts? If so, you may be experiencing the symptoms of broken trust in workplace relationships. Small but hurtful situations accumulate over time into the confidence-busting, commitment-breaking, energy-draining patterns consistent with broken trust. Everyone has experienced gossiping, missed deadlines, someone taking credit for other people’s work, or “little white lies.” You may have been hurt. You may have realized that you inadvertently let others down. Or you may be wondering how to help others reeling from broken trust. No matter your vantage point, this new book from two award-winning authors and consultants to top-tier organizations offers a proven seven-step process to heal pain and rebuild trust. This compassionate, practical approach helps you reframe the experience, take responsibility, forgive, let go, and move on. You can feel motivated to go to work again—and safe to be more fully who you are, giving your organization your best thinking, highest intention, risk-taking, and creativity. And in a place of self-discovery, self-trust, and authenticity, you can connect more fully with others in your personal life as well. While there have been many books on recovering from betrayal in personal relationships, this is the first to focus specifically on the workplace—and the first to give equal weight to what to do when you have hurt others. “Rebuilding trust is a job you cannot ignore if you want a thriving workplace. Don’t miss this book.” —John Kador, author of Effective Apology |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth Craig James Langston, 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth is an empowering, compassionate guide designed to support individuals on their journey to recovery. With 100 thoughtfully crafted worksheets, this workbook offers practical tools, insightful exercises, and proven therapeutic techniques that promote self-understanding, resilience, and long-term healing. Structured into key sections that address each phase of recovery, this workbook guides readers through self-reflective exercises on topics such as identifying eating disorder patterns, managing triggers, building emotional resilience, developing healthy relationships, and creating balanced routines. Each worksheet is based on methods from cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and mindfulness practices, making the book a valuable companion for individuals working independently or as a supplement to professional therapy. Ideal for those looking to break free from disordered eating, 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth provides readers with the tools to create sustainable change. The exercises within these pages foster self-compassion, encourage positive habits, and empower individuals to reclaim a balanced, fulfilling life. This workbook is also an excellent resource for therapists, counselors, and mental health professionals seeking to support clients on their path to recovery. Inside this book, you’ll find: Worksheets that guide you through self-awareness, emotional healing, and personal growth Practical exercises to support daily routines, goal-setting, and healthy coping strategies Step-by-step guidance on building a strong support network and setting healthy boundaries Tools for managing stress, reducing anxiety, and promoting mindful habits Reflection prompts that inspire personal insight and foster self-compassion Whether you’re beginning your journey or looking to reinforce your progress, 100 Eating Disorder Worksheets for Self-Healing and Growth offers a supportive, structured approach to healing. Embrace this workbook as a partner in recovery, designed to empower you with the skills and resilience needed to build a life beyond disordered eating. Start your path to self-healing and resilience today. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Relationships in Recovery Kelly E. Green, 2021-08-06 Addiction can wreak havoc on relationships, destroying trust and damaging bonds with family, friends, and colleagues. Substance use both causes these interpersonal problems and becomes a method of trying to cope with them. Psychologist and addictions expert Kelly Green has learned through working with hundreds of clients that maintaining healthy relationships is key to the recovery process. In this compassionate, judgment-free guide, Dr. Green shares powerful tools for setting and maintaining boundaries, communicating feelings and needs, ending harmful relationships respectfully, and reestablishing emotional intimacy. With inspiring narratives, downloadable self-assessment worksheets, and exercises, this book lights the way to a life untethered from addiction--and filled with positive connections-- |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: After the Affair Janis A. Spring, 2008-07-08 After the Affair teaches partners how to heal themselves and grow from the shattering crisis of an infidelity. Drawing on thirty-five years as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Spring offers a series of original and proven strategies that address such questions as: Why did it happen? Once love and trust are gone, can we ever get them back? Can I—should I—recommit when I feel so ambivalent? How do we become sexually intimate again? Is forgiveness possible? What constitutes an affair in cyberspace? |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Science of Trust: Emotional Attunement for Couples John M. Gottman, 2011-05-09 An eminent therapist explains what makes couples compatible and how to sustain a happy marriage. For the past thirty-five years, John Gottman’s research has been internationally recognized for its unprecedented ability to precisely measure interactive processes in couples and to predict the long-term success or failure of relationships. In this groundbreaking book, he presents a new approach to understanding and changing couples: a fundamental social skill called “emotional attunement,” which describes a couple’s ability to fully process and move on from negative emotional events, ultimately creating a stronger relationship. Gottman draws from this longitudinal research and theory to show how emotional attunement can downregulate negative affect, help couples focus on positive traits and memories, and even help prevent domestic violence. He offers a detailed intervention devised to cultivate attunement, thereby helping couples connect, respect, and show affection. Emotional attunement is extended to tackle the subjects of flooding, the story we tell ourselves about our relationship, conflict, personality, changing relationships, and gender. Gottman also explains how to create emotional attunement when it is missing, to lay a foundation that will carry the relationship through difficult times. Gottman encourages couples to cultivate attunement through awareness, tolerance, understanding, non-defensive listening, and empathy. These qualities, he argues, inspire confidence in couples, and the sense that despite the inevitable struggles, the relationship is enduring and resilient. This book, an essential follow-up to his 1999 The Marriage Clinic, offers therapists, students, and researchers detailed intervention for working with couples, and offers couples a roadmap to a stronger future together. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work John Gottman, PhD, Nan Silver, 2015-05-05 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else. Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Healing Intimacy: Overcoming Love and Sex Addiction Logan Reed, 2024-09-21 Healing Intimacy: Overcoming Love and Sex Addiction is a compassionate and empowering guide for individuals facing love and sex addiction, offering a path to reclaiming healthy relationships and self-worth. This book delves into the complexities of intimacy disorders, providing practical tips, real-life examples, and exercises that support recovery. Drawing on the expertise of psychologists, therapists, and addiction specialists, it addresses the emotional and psychological roots of love and sex addiction, helping readers understand their behaviors and triggers. Additionally, the book includes sections for partners, family members, and friends, offering insights on how to provide support during the healing process. Written in an encouraging and relatable style, Healing Intimacy aims to empower readers to break free from unhealthy patterns and build authentic, loving connections. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Exaholics Lisa Marie Bobby, 2016-02-10 Severing a cherished relationship is one of the most painful experiences in life—and cutting those emotional ties to a loved one can feel almost like ending an addiction. Up till now, people recovering from other problems were able to get real help—like AA and rehab—while those struggling in the aftermath of traumatic breaks dealt with platitudes and friends insisting they should get over it already. But now Exaholics Anonymous treats getting over an ex like kicking a chemical habit. Written by counselor and therapist Dr. Lisa Bobby, Exaholics offers meaningful support and advice to anyone trapped in the obsessive pain of a broken, or dying, attachment. She helps the brokenhearted heal, showing them, on a deep level, how to develop a conceptual framework for their experience, understand the emotional processes at work inside themselves, find the path to recovery, and free themselves of shame, injured ego, and remorse. In-depth case studies of others' journeys will illuminate the way to future happiness. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Getting Past the Affair Douglas K. Snyder, Donald H. Baucom, Kristina Coop Gordon, 2007-01-06 This book has been replaced by Getting Past the Affair, Second Edition, ISBN 978-1-4625-4748-7. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Trusted Advisor Fieldbook Charles H. Green, Andrea P. Howe, 2011-11-15 A practical guide to being a trusted advisor for leaders in any industry In this hands-on successor to the popular book The Trusted Advisor, you'll find answers to pervasive questions about trust and leadership—such as how to develop business with trust, nurture trust-based relationships, build and run a trustworthy organization, and develop your trust skill set. This pragmatic workbook delivers everyday tools, exercises, resources, and actionable to-do lists for the wide range of situations a trusted advisor inevitably encounters. The authors speak in concrete terms about how to dramatically improve your results in sales, relationship management, and organizational performance. Your success as a leader will always be based on the degree to which you are trusted by your stakeholders. Each chapter offers specific ways to train your thinking and your habits in order to earn the trust that is necessary to be influential, successful, and known as someone who makes a difference. Self-administered worksheets and coaching questions provide immediate insights into your current business challenges Real-life examples demonstrate proven ways to walk the talk Action plans bridge the gap between insights and outcomes Put the knowledge and practices in this fieldbook to work, and you'll be someone who earns trust quickly, consistently, and sustainably—in business and in life. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love Nancy Dreyfus, Psy.D., 2009-12-24 “The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars.”—Erin Meanley, Glamour.com A groundbreaking, interactive relationship tool that literally places in the hands of couples the power to transform chronically frustrating relationship dynamics. We've all been there. A conversation with a loved one escalates into conflict. Voices rise to a fever pitch and angry, accusative words fly through the air. At times like these, it seems impossible to find the magic words that will lead to healing. Enter Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love. A psychotherapist with decades of experience in counseling couples, Nancy Dreyfus hit upon the revolutionary practice outlined in this book during a couples-therapy session in which a wife’s unrelenting criticism of her husband was causing him to become emotionally withdrawn. In the midst of this, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, “Talk to me like I'm someone you love,” and gestured to the husband that he should hold it up. He did and within seconds the familiar power differential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged. Dreyfus was startled, then intrigued, and then motivated to create a tool that could help others. This book features more than one hundred of Dreyfus's flash cards for real life, written statements that express what we wish we could communicate to the person we love, but either can't find the right words or the right tone in which to say it. The statements include: • Taking responsibility: I realize I'm overreacting. Can you give me a minute to get sane again? • Apologizing: I know I've really hurt you. What can I do to help you trust me again? • Loving: You are precious, and I get that I haven't been treating you like you are. A one-of-a-kind, practical relationship tool, Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love will help couples to stop arguing and begin healing. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Five-Minute Relationship Repair Susan Campbell, PhD,, John Grey, PhD, 2015-01-20 The Tool Kit No Relationship Should Be Without Long-term happiness in love depends on a couple’s ability to repair the inevitable rifts and differences, large and small, that occur in any relationship. Neuroscience suggests that relationship upsets are best mended quickly, or they accumulate in long-term memory, increase reactive communication, and become harder to repair successfully. And good repair takes five minutes or less! This book offers practical tools and suggested scripts for resolving problems and having your needs met. Following its guidance, you can turn difficulties into opportunities to foster love, trust, and thriving intimacy. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Your Defiant Teen Russell A. Barkley, Arthur L. Robin, 2013-10-17 If life with your teen has become a battleground, it's time to take action. This empathic book shows how. Trusted psychologists who have worked with thousands of families give you the tools you need to overcome defiance and get teen behavior back on track. By following the authors' clinically proven 10-step program, learn how you can: *Reestablish your authority while building trust. *Identify and enforce nonnegotiable rules. *Use rewards and incentives that work. *Communicate and problem-solve effectively--even in the heat of the moment. *Restore positive feelings in your relationship. *Develop your teen's skills for becoming a successful adult. Vivid stories and answers to frequently asked questions help you put the techniques into action. The updated second edition incorporates new scientific research on why some teens have more problems with self-control than others. Practical forms and worksheets can be downloaded and printed in a convenient 8 1/2 x 11 size. Mental health professionals, see also the authors' Defiant Teens, Second Edition: A Clinician's Manual for Assessment and Family Intervention. For a focus on younger children, see also Dr. Barkley's Defiant Children, Third Edition (for professionals), and Your Defiant Child, Second Edition (for parents). |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Restoration Therapy Terry D. Hargrave, Franz Pfitzer, 2011-05-09 How can a therapist help his or her clients and ensure that they continue to maintain the insights and motivations learned during therapy in everyday life, beyond termination? Restoration Therapy is a professional resource that introduces the reader to the essential elements of its namesake, and from there guides clinicians to a systemic understanding of how certain forces lead to destructive cycles in relationships, which perpetuate more and more dysfunction among members. Clients and therapists both will understand issues more clearly, experience the impacts that emotion can have on insight, and practice the process so more loving and trustworthy relationships can take hold in the intergenerational family. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Resilient Relationship Janie Edith Briggs, 2024-10-10 In today’s complex world of relationships, trust, emotional safety, and healing from past trauma are more important than ever. The Resilient Relationship: Healing Trauma, Trust, and Emotional Safety in Modern Love by Janie Edith Briggs offers a compassionate and comprehensive guide to building and sustaining emotionally safe, resilient relationships, even in the face of trauma and broken trust. Drawing from modern psychology, relational theory, and practical experience, this book provides tools to help couples navigate the challenges that often surface in relationships—whether it’s healing from past wounds, managing emotional triggers, or rebuilding trust after a betrayal. Through step-by-step exercises, guided journaling prompts, and relatable real-life examples, readers will learn how to create and maintain an emotionally safe environment where both partners can communicate openly, heal from past traumas, and strengthen their emotional bonds. The Resilient Relationship doesn’t offer quick fixes; instead, it empowers couples to work through their issues thoughtfully and compassionately, fostering deeper intimacy and long-lasting connection. Whether you’re in a traditional monogamous relationship, navigating the complexities of polyamory, or rebuilding after a major conflict, this book is designed to help you cultivate resilience in your relationship by focusing on emotional safety, trust, and healing. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Big Book of Conflict Resolution Games: Quick, Effective Activities to Improve Communication, Trust and Collaboration Mary Scannell, 2010-05-28 Make workplace conflict resolution a game that EVERYBODY wins! Recent studies show that typical managers devote more than a quarter of their time to resolving coworker disputes. The Big Book of Conflict-Resolution Games offers a wealth of activities and exercises for groups of any size that let you manage your business (instead of managing personalities). Part of the acclaimed, bestselling Big Books series, this guide offers step-by-step directions and customizable tools that empower you to heal rifts arising from ineffective communication, cultural/personality clashes, and other specific problem areas—before they affect your organization's bottom line. Let The Big Book of Conflict-Resolution Games help you to: Build trust Foster morale Improve processes Overcome diversity issues And more Dozens of physical and verbal activities help create a safe environment for teams to explore several common forms of conflict—and their resolution. Inexpensive, easy-to-implement, and proved effective at Fortune 500 corporations and mom-and-pop businesses alike, the exercises in The Big Book of Conflict-Resolution Games delivers everything you need to make your workplace more efficient, effective, and engaged. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: NOT "Just Friends" Shirley Glass, 2007-11-01 One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Couples Therapy Workbook Kathleen Mates-Youngman, LMFT, 2014-10-01 Couples Therapy Workbook is a series of guided questions to promote meaningful couple conversations and build ongoing, connected communication. The core of this unique guide is 30 guided conversations of the most critical relationship struggles. For each of the 30 topics, there is an introduction, goal-setting strategies and 10 scripted questions to ask each other - all presented in an easy-to-use mindful style. Set in a weekly format over 30 days but can be tailored to any timeframe. Designed to be used to couples, and also by therapists working with couples (bonus clinician prep included with each conversation). Week 1- Who Are We? Falling in Love, Friendship, Caring, Acceptance, Empathy, Emotional Intimacy, Rituals Week 2 - Who Am I? Childhood, Family Origin, Temperament, Influences, Spirituality, Values, How I Think Week 3- How do we work? Communication, Conflict, Defensiveness, Intimacy, Trust, Fidelity and Boundaries, Parenting, Staying in Sync Week 4 - What do we want? Romance, Joy and Gratitude, respect, Apologies and Forgiveness, Challenges, Relationship Savings Account, Past, Present & Future, Keeping Connected Reviews: “What a unique resource! A treasure-trove of guided conversations to increase intimacy and friendship. Therapists often ask me for good homework assignments. This book does the thinking for you. Keep it on hand and whether its values, sex, conflict or other challenging issues, you'll have a ready-made way to help your clients make immediate progress.” -- Ellyn Bader, Ph.D, Founder/Director The Couples Institute This is a valuable resource for anyone working with couples. Any couple can profit greatly if they are willing to take Kathleen Youngman's challenge to explore these important topics and discuss these wonderful questions. -- Milan and Kay Yerkovich, Authors of best-selling How We Love series “Instead of offering analysis, advice or theory, The Couples Therapy Workbook offers just that, a set of questions to stimulate conversations that help couples deepen their engagement with each other and reconnect. All couples will find this an exceptional guide, and all therapists will find it an effective instrument to supplement the therapeutic process. I highly recommend it and complement the author on her creativity and attention to the core details of a connected relationship.” --Harville Hendrix, Ph. D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph. D.; Authors of Making Marriage Simple and Getting the Love You Want. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Option B Sheryl Sandberg, Adam Grant, 2017-04-24 #1 NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLER • From authors of Lean In and Originals: a powerful, inspiring, and practical book about building resilience and moving forward after life’s inevitable setbacks After the sudden death of her husband, Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she and her children would never feel pure joy again. “I was in ‘the void,’” she writes, “a vast emptiness that fills your heart and lungs and restricts your ability to think or even breathe.” Her friend Adam Grant, a psychologist at Wharton, told her there are concrete steps people can take to recover and rebound from life-shattering experiences. We are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. It is a muscle that everyone can build. Option B combines Sheryl’s personal insights with Adam’s eye-opening research on finding strength in the face of adversity. Beginning with the gut-wrenching moment when she finds her husband, Dave Goldberg, collapsed on a gym floor, Sheryl opens up her heart—and her journal—to describe the acute grief and isolation she felt in the wake of his death. But Option B goes beyond Sheryl’s loss to explore how a broad range of people have overcome hardships including illness, job loss, sexual assault, natural disasters, and the violence of war. Their stories reveal the capacity of the human spirit to persevere . . . and to rediscover joy. Resilience comes from deep within us and from support outside us. Even after the most devastating events, it is possible to grow by finding deeper meaning and gaining greater appreciation in our lives. Option B illuminates how to help others in crisis, develop compassion for ourselves, raise strong children, and create resilient families, communities, and workplaces. Many of these lessons can be applied to everyday struggles, allowing us to brave whatever lies ahead. Two weeks after losing her husband, Sheryl was preparing for a father-child activity. “I want Dave,” she cried. Her friend replied, “Option A is not available,” and then promised to help her make the most of Option B. We all live some form of Option B. This book will help us all make the most of it. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Parenting Today’s Teens Mark Gregston, 2018-09-04 Parenting today’s teens is not for cowards. Your teenager is facing unprecedented and confusing pressures, temptations, and challenges in today’s culture. Mark Gregston has helped teens and their parents through every struggle imaginable, and now he shares his biblical, practical insights with you in bite-size pieces. Punctuated with Scriptures, prayers, and penetrating questions, these one-page devotions will give you the wisdom and assurance you need to guide your teen through these years and reach the other side with relationships intact. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Behavioral Couples Therapy for Alcoholism and Drug Abuse Timothy J. O'Farrell, William Fals-Stewart, 2012-03-12 This eminently practical guide presents an empirically supported approach for treating people with substance abuse problems and their spouses or domestic partners. Behavioral couples therapy (BCT) explicitly focuses on both substance use and relationship issues, and is readily compatible with 12-step approaches. In a convenient large-size format, the book provides all the materials needed to introduce BCT; implement a recovery contract to support abstinence; work with clients to increase positive activities, improve communication, and reduce relapse risks; and deal with special treatment challenges. Appendices include a session-by-session treatment manual and 70 reproducible checklists, forms, and client education posters. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Getting Back Together Bettie B Youngs, Masa Goetz, Suzy Farbman, 2006-02-15 You can save your relationship! The divorce courts are littered with broken marriages--and broken lives. Yet most people would save their marriages--if only they knew how. Getting back together is the solid, comprehensive guide you can count on to get your relationship back on track. No matter what issues you may face, this step-by-step program shows you how to take the initiative, reconcile your differences, and remake your relationship--from the ground up. In this completely revised edition, Drs. Young and Goetz provide the most current studies and relationship evaluation tools available. They also include numerous inspiring real-life stories of couples that have resurrected and renewed their relationships. Packed full of valuable information and comforting advice, Getting Back Together helps couples beat the odds and build a new, happier life together--forever. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Relationship Alphabet Zach Brittle, 2015-07-07 The Relationship Alphabet is an alphabetical survey of relationship topics based on the research of Dr. John Gottman. The book includes insights on communication, conflict management and friendship building. Practical discussion questions make it easy to turn ideas into action. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Overcoming Your Alcohol or Drug Problem Dennis C. Daley, G. Alan Marlatt, 2006-06-15 A substance use problem exists when one experiences any type of difficulty related to using alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs including illicit street drugs or prescribed drugs such as painkillers or tranquilizers. The difficulty can be in any area of life; medical or physical, psychological, family, interpersonal, social, academic, occupational, legal, financial, or spiritual. This expanded new edition of the successful Graywind Publications title provides the reader with practical information and skills to help them understand and change a drug or alcohol problem. Designed to be used in conjunction with therapy or counseling, it focuses on special issues involved in stopping substance use and in changing behaviors or aspects of one's lifestyle that keep the substance use problem active. The information presented is derived from a wealth of research studies, and discusses the most effective recovery strategies from the examination of cognitive-behavoral treatment. TreatmentsThatWorkTM represents the gold standard of behavioral healthcare interventions! · All programs have been rigorously tested in clinical trials and are backed by years of research · A prestigious scientific advisory board, led by series Editor-In-Chief David H. Barlow, reviews and evaluates each intervention to ensure that it meets the highest standard of evidence so you can be confident that you are using the most effective treatment available to date · Our books are reliable and effective and make it easy for you to provide your clients with the best care available · Our corresponding workbooks contain psychoeducational information, forms and worksheets, and homework assignments to keep clients engaged and motivated · A companion website (www.oup.com/us/ttw) offers downloadable clinical tools and helpful resources · Continuing Education (CE) Credits are now available on select titles in collaboration with PsychoEducational Resources, Inc. (PER) |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Imago Relationship Therapy Mo Therese Hannah, 2005-03-11 Imago Relationship Therapy It's been more than three decades since Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt—the best-selling authors of Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find—created Imago Relationship Therapy. Their concept of the conscious marriage introduced a new paradigm for understanding the dynamics of couples. Since that time more than two thousand clinicians in twenty-eight countries have adopted and implemented this highly effective form of couples therapy. This groundbreaking book offers an overview of the highly successful Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT) and the relationship of IRT with preceding schools of thought such as psychoanalytic theory, family systems theories, affect theory, and self-psychology. At the heart of IRT is a three-step process involving mirroring (reflecting) the partner's feelings, validating the partner's point of view, and expressing empathy toward the partner's feelings. Imago Relationship Therapy traces IRT's history and explosive growth and outlines the differences and similarities between Imago theory and other models of couples therapy. The book also presents some of the ideas of prominent Imago thinkers, such as the central role of connectivity and the problem of envy in committed relationships. A uniquely important book for the practitioner, which provides clinical wisdom and a rare look into the heart and soul of Imago Relationship Therapy. —Pat Love, Ed.D., author, The Truth About Love |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Getting the Love You Want Workbook Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt, 2007-11-01 This newly revised and updated companion study guide to the 2019 edition of the New York Times bestseller Getting the Love You Want. In 1988, Harville Hendrix, in partnership with his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, published a terrifically successful relationship guide called Getting the Love You Want. The book introduced thousands to their Imago Relationship Therapy, a unique healing process for couples, prospective couples, and parents, and developed into an overnight sensation. For their part, Doctors Hendrix and Hunt managed to aid scores of couples in their plight for more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying relationships. Now, more than a decade later, this companion book picks up where its predecessor left off, delving further into relationship therapy to help transform relationships into lasting sources of love and companionship. The Getting the Love You Want Workbook is designed for the hundreds of thousands of couples who have attended Imago workshops since Getting the Love You Want hit bookstands, as well as new and curious ones seeking a practical route back to intimacy and passionate friendship. The workbook contains a unique twelve-week course (The New Couples’ Study Guide) designed to help work through the exercises published in Part III of Getting the Love You Want. For those of us struggling to maintain our most precious relationships, the Getting the Love You Want Workbook helps us grow aware of our individual, unconscious agenda while steering us towards a more harmonious link with our loved ones that will satisfy our deepest needs. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal Kevin Skinner, 2017-01-18 Sexual betrayal creates significant trauma. Using new research and current treatment approaches this book provides individuals experiencing betrayal support and ideas for their healing and recovery. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: ACT with Love Russ Harris, 2023-06-01 Build more compassionate, accepting, and loving relationships with acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). Let’s face it: Picture-perfect storybook romances don’t exist in real life. Couples fight. Feelings of love wax and wane through the years. And the stress and tedium of everyday life and work can often drive a wedge between even the most devoted couples. So, how can you reignite passion and intimacy in your relationship, cultivate greater understanding and compassion between yourself and your partner, and bring the joy back to your love life? In this fully revised and updated edition of ACT with Love, therapist and world-renowned ACT expert Russ Harris shows how developing psychological flexibility—the ability to be in the present moment with openness, awareness, and focus, and to take effective action in line with one's values—can help you and your partner strengthen and deepen your relationship. Also included is new information on attachment theory, powerful mindfulness and self-compassion techniques, and assertiveness and boundary-setting skills. ACT with Love will show you how to: Let go of conflict, open up, and live fully in the present Use mindfulness to increase intimacy, connection, and understanding Resolve painful conflicts and reconcile long-standing differences Act on your values to build a rich and meaningful relationship If you’re looking to increase feelings of intimacy, love, and connection with your partner, this book has everything you need to get started—together. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Dare to Lead Brené Brown, 2018-10-09 #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Brené Brown has taught us what it means to dare greatly, rise strong, and brave the wilderness. Now, based on new research conducted with leaders, change makers, and culture shifters, she’s showing us how to put those ideas into practice so we can step up and lead. Don’t miss the five-part Max docuseries Brené Brown: Atlas of the Heart! ONE OF BLOOMBERG’S BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR Leadership is not about titles, status, and wielding power. A leader is anyone who takes responsibility for recognizing the potential in people and ideas, and has the courage to develop that potential. When we dare to lead, we don’t pretend to have the right answers; we stay curious and ask the right questions. We don’t see power as finite and hoard it; we know that power becomes infinite when we share it with others. We don’t avoid difficult conversations and situations; we lean into vulnerability when it’s necessary to do good work. But daring leadership in a culture defined by scarcity, fear, and uncertainty requires skill-building around traits that are deeply and uniquely human. The irony is that we’re choosing not to invest in developing the hearts and minds of leaders at the exact same time as we’re scrambling to figure out what we have to offer that machines and AI can’t do better and faster. What can we do better? Empathy, connection, and courage, to start. Four-time #1 New York Times bestselling author Brené Brown has spent the past two decades studying the emotions and experiences that give meaning to our lives, and the past seven years working with transformative leaders and teams spanning the globe. She found that leaders in organizations ranging from small entrepreneurial startups and family-owned businesses to nonprofits, civic organizations, and Fortune 50 companies all ask the same question: How do you cultivate braver, more daring leaders, and how do you embed the value of courage in your culture? In Dare to Lead, Brown uses research, stories, and examples to answer these questions in the no-BS style that millions of readers have come to expect and love. Brown writes, “One of the most important findings of my career is that daring leadership is a collection of four skill sets that are 100 percent teachable, observable, and measurable. It’s learning and unlearning that requires brave work, tough conversations, and showing up with your whole heart. Easy? No. Because choosing courage over comfort is not always our default. Worth it? Always. We want to be brave with our lives and our work. It’s why we’re here.” Whether you’ve read Daring Greatly and Rising Strong or you’re new to Brené Brown’s work, this book is for anyone who wants to step up and into brave leadership. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking about it Patricia Love, Steven Stosny, 2007-01-01 Offers practical suggestions for how to enhance a marriage, explains behaviors that can break up a marriage, and argues that talking about a relationship will not bring partners closer together. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Love More, Fight Less: Communication Skills Every Couple Needs Gina Senarighi PhD, CPC, 2020-07-28 Learn to communicate effectively, meaningfully, and lovingly with your partner--even in tense situations. Conflict is part of every relationship, even the healthiest ones. The key to a long-lasting relationship isn't avoiding fights, but rather seeing them as opportunities to work together. In her book, Gottman-certified relationship coach Dr. Gina Senarighi gives us the tools and strategies we need to communicate effectively, rebuild trust, and repair past hurts. Love More, Fight Less features: 30 COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND ACTIVITIES for building self-awareness, identifying and interrupting emotional reactivity, eliminating judgment, separating thoughts from feelings, and more 29 COMMON PITFALLS IN RELATIONSHIPS around issues of intimacy, career, finances, family and home matters, and friendships with other people--and how to navigate them STEP-BY-STEP GUIDANCE AND EXPERT INSIGHT to help you transform your relationship's conflict patterns by integrating effective communication skills This relationship workbook is for couples who want to learn new skills and build a solid foundation for working through conflicts and moving forward in ways that strengthen their bonds. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Flipped Wendelin Van Draanen, 2003-05-13 A classic he-said-she-said romantic comedy! This updated anniversary edition offers story-behind-the-story revelations from author Wendelin Van Draanen. The first time she saw him, she flipped. The first time he saw her, he ran. That was the second grade, but not much has changed by the seventh. Juli says: “My Bryce. Still walking around with my first kiss.” He says: “It’s been six years of strategic avoidance and social discomfort.” But in the eighth grade everything gets turned upside down: just as Bryce is thinking that there’s maybe more to Juli than meets the eye, she’s thinking that he’s not quite all he seemed. This is a classic romantic comedy of errors told in alternating chapters by two fresh, funny voices. The updated anniversary edition contains 32 pages of extra backmatter: essays from Wendelin Van Draanen on her sources of inspiration, on the making of the movie of Flipped, on why she’ll never write a sequel, and a selection of the amazing fan mail she’s received. Awards and accolades for Flipped: SLJ Top 100 Children’s Novels of all time IRA-CBC Children’s Choice IRA Teacher’s Choice Honor winner, Judy Lopez Memorial Award/WNBA Winner of the California Young Reader Medal “We flipped over this fantastic book, its gutsy girl Juli and its wise, wonderful ending.” — The Chicago Tribune “Van Draanen has another winner in this eighth-grade ‘he-said, she-said’ romance. A fast, funny, egg-cellent winner.” — SLJ, Starred review “With a charismatic leading lady kids will flip over, a compelling dynamic between the two narrators and a resonant ending, this novel is a great deal larger than the sum of its parts.” —Publishers Weekly, Starred review |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work John Gottman, Ph.D., 2002-02-04 Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages. This book is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved. Packed with questionnaires and exercises whose effectiveness has been proven in Dr. Gottman's workshops, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the result of Dr. John Gottman's many years of closely observing thousands of marriages. This kind of longitudinal research has never been done before. Based on his findings, he has culled seven principles essential to the success of any marriage. Maintain a love map. Foster fondness and admiration. Turn toward instead of away. Accept influence. Solve solvable conflicts. Cope with conflicts you can't resolve. Create shared meaning. Dr. Gottman's unique questionnaires and exercises will guide couples on the road to revitalizing their marriage, or making a strong one even better. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Eight Dates John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams, 2019-02-05 Whether you’re newly together and eager to make it work or a longtime couple looking to strengthen and deepen your bond, Eight Dates offers a program of how, why, and when to have eight basic conversations with your partner that can result in a lifetime of love. “Happily ever after” is not by chance, it’s by choice– the choice each person in a relationship makes to remain open, remain curious, and, most of all, to keep talking to one another. From award-winning marriage researcher and bestselling author Dr. John Gottman and fellow researcher Julie Gottman, Eight Dates offers an ingenious and simple-to-implement approach to effective relationship communication. Here are the subjects that every serious couple should discuss: Trust. Family. Sex and intimacy. Dealing with conflict. Work and money. Dreams, and more. And here is how to talk about them—how to broach subjects that are difficult or embarrassing, how to be brave enough to say what you really feel. There are also suggestions for where and when to go on each date—book your favorite romantic restaurant for the Sex & Intimacy conversation (and maybe go to a yoga or dance class beforehand). There are questionnaires, innovative exercises, real-life case studies, and skills to master, including the Four Skills of Intimate Conversation and the Art of Listening. Because making love last is not about having a certain feeling—it’s about both of you being active and involved. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: 201 Relationship Questions Barrie Davenport, 2015-09-03 Building a trusting, close bond requires communication, mutual respect and a bit of compromise. By understanding each other's needs and desires, you create a safe, loving couple bubble to protect your bond and make it stronger. Mutual questioning is a powerful technique to draw out deeper emotions and desires and address potential areas of conflict. The right questions inspire compassion and action for positive change. 201 Relationship Questions is your guide to creating a happier, healthier, sexier, and more intimate connection. Share each question, invite discussion, and keep a personal journal of the actions and changes you want to make. Set aside sacred time together for questions each day, and keep your relationship fresh and exciting for a lifetime -- Back cover. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Emotionally Focused Family Therapy James L. Furrow, Gail Palmer, Susan M. Johnson, George Faller, Lisa Palmer-Olsen, 2019-06-11 Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is the definitive manual for applying the effectiveness of emotionally focused therapy (EFT) to the complexities of family life. The book sets out a theoretical framework for mental health professionals to enhance their conceptualization of family dynamics, considering a broad range of presenting problems and family groups. The first section applies EFT theory and principles to the practice of family therapy. The second section explicates the process of EFT and examines the interventions associated with the EFT approach to families. In the final section, the authors provide case examples of emotionally focused family therapy (EFFT) practice, with chapters on traumatic loss, stepfamilies, externalizing disorders, and internalizing disorders. Integrating up-to-date research with clinical transcripts and case examples throughout, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is a must-read for therapists looking to promote the development and renewal of family relationships using the principles of EFT. |
| rebuilding trust in a relationship worksheets: Intimacy After Infidelity Steven Solomon, Lorie Teagno, 2006-11-01 A Guide to Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy It's devastating to discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you. You'll be facing some hard questions after learning of your partner's infidelity. You may choose to rebuild your relationship, or you may decide to move on. Whatever the right decision is for you, this book will help you figure out why your partner betrayed you and decide whether you can remain in your relationship. It will also show you new ways to relate that can help you and your partner become a lasting, loving, and committed couple. You'll start by taking a look at the phenomenon of infidelity and the three types of intimacy: self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacy. Then you'll learn about the three kinds of infidelity—those of fear, of loneliness, and of anger—and what each reveals about your relationship. Then it's on to practical exercises that can heal emotional wounds and enable you to recover your ability to trust. Even if you decide not to remain with your current partner, the book will help you make wise relationship choices to affair-proof your future relationship. |
Rebuilding Trust in Your Relationship - Between Sessions
When rebuilding trust, your relationship might look quite different after a major breach or infidelity, but it is possible to build something new together. Here are some suggestions or establishing …
Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship Worksheets - Carepatron
This worksheet is designed to facilitate trust-building between partners through a series of planned activities. Trust is the cornerstone of any meaningful relationship; engaging in …
REBUILDING TRUST - Marital Intimacy Inst
The following information gives an overview of the process of rebuilding trust after infidelity and provides a worksheet to list out your Trust-Building Behaviors to do every day to rebuild trust …
BUILDING TRUST IN RELATIONSHIPS - journeytorecovery.com
Being dependable over a long period of time, creating and establishing a new reputation built on honesty and integrity, and living a transparent life without deception or secrets will rapidly build …
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship Worksheets (PDF)
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship Worksheets: How to Build trust In a Relationship Claire Robin, Trust is apparently the backbone of every reasonable relationship For a relationship to last and …
How to Rebuild Trust - Marriage365
Use these connecting questions as a guide to rebuild trust in your relationship. Take some uninterrupted time to work through these answers by really listening to each other, even when …
The Couples Guide to Building Trust and Emotional Intimacy
The Couples Guide to Building Trust and Emotional Intimacy. By Barrie Davenport. How to Use These Questions. e this a project you and your partner undertake as a team. You both want to …
Healing Your Relationship Following Infidelity - Between Sessions
Psychologists have found the process of healing a relationship damaged by infidelity begins with the restoration of trust. To repair trust, partners must be very honest about all aspects of their …
by Hal Baumchen, PsyD, LP, LADC - Journey To Recovery
CHAPTER. Discover how dishonesty breaks trust. Recognize emotional reasons people are dishonest and deceitful. Explore strategies to build security, develop consistency, and rebuild …
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship - ACCFS
find below some helpful principles to guide the process of rebuilding trust. These principles have been organized by using the acronym BRAVING, because rebuilding trust and connection with …
The Relationship Institute
This is a handout we use with couples who are trying to rebuild trust after an infidelity or other losses of faith that include lying or deception. We suggest that the betrayed partner go through …
Rebuilding trust worksheet .pages - betterpleasure.net
Rebuilding Trust. Below is a list of reasonable accountability behaviors you may need in order for your trust to be rebuilt. Put an X next to the behaviors you need right now. Share those with …
The Workbook for
you, but it can impact your partner and limit trust and intimacy. Most people find a dozen or more behaviors on this list that they recognize in themselves. Use this knowledge to identify how …
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship Worksheets (book)
Rebuilding trust in a relationship is an ongoing process that demands time, patience, and dedication from both partners. While worksheets can provide a framework for communication …
CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY
1. Build trust. A primary, or foundational, piece of any intimate relationship is the ability to trust and be trusted. Having an afair, lying to your partner, cheating, withholding information, or …
Learning to Trust Others - Between Sessions
Write a letter to a person you distrust. List your reasons for the lack of trust and feelings and beliefs you have. Tell the person what you are willing to do to build trust. Include what you will …
Rebuilding Trust in Your Marriage After an Affair
Restoring the fun and friendship in the marriage is a key step in rebuilding after infidelity. They need to recommit to the relationship and make time for one another each day. It is important to …
Building Trust Exercises Worksheets - Ineffable Living
Building Trust Exercises Worksheets. 1. Reflection on Trust: Reflect on your current views and experiences with trust. How easily do you trust others, and what factors influence your trust …
The Couples Communica0on Workbook - Between Sessions
This book offers fiiy-two worksheets that will help couples learn strategies to manage their emo=ons in construc=ve ways, instead of turning to behaviors that erode their rela=onship. …
CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY
Build trust. A primary, or foundational, piece of any intimate relationship is the ability to trust and be trusted. Having an afair, lying to your partner, cheating, withholding information, or stealing …
Rebuilding Trust in Your Relationship - Between Sessions
When rebuilding trust, your relationship might look quite different after a major breach or infidelity, but it is possible to build something new together. Here are some suggestions or establishing …
Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship Worksheets - Carepatron
This worksheet is designed to facilitate trust-building between partners through a series of planned activities. Trust is the cornerstone of any meaningful relationship; engaging in …
REBUILDING TRUST - Marital Intimacy Inst
The following information gives an overview of the process of rebuilding trust after infidelity and provides a worksheet to list out your Trust-Building Behaviors to do every day to rebuild trust …
BUILDING TRUST IN RELATIONSHIPS - journeytorecovery.com
Being dependable over a long period of time, creating and establishing a new reputation built on honesty and integrity, and living a transparent life without deception or secrets will rapidly build …
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship Worksheets (PDF)
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship Worksheets: How to Build trust In a Relationship Claire Robin, Trust is apparently the backbone of every reasonable relationship For a relationship to last and …
How to Rebuild Trust - Marriage365
Use these connecting questions as a guide to rebuild trust in your relationship. Take some uninterrupted time to work through these answers by really listening to each other, even when …
The Couples Guide to Building Trust and Emotional Intimacy
The Couples Guide to Building Trust and Emotional Intimacy. By Barrie Davenport. How to Use These Questions. e this a project you and your partner undertake as a team. You both want to …
Healing Your Relationship Following Infidelity - Between Sessions
Psychologists have found the process of healing a relationship damaged by infidelity begins with the restoration of trust. To repair trust, partners must be very honest about all aspects of their …
by Hal Baumchen, PsyD, LP, LADC - Journey To Recovery
CHAPTER. Discover how dishonesty breaks trust. Recognize emotional reasons people are dishonest and deceitful. Explore strategies to build security, develop consistency, and rebuild …
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship - ACCFS
find below some helpful principles to guide the process of rebuilding trust. These principles have been organized by using the acronym BRAVING, because rebuilding trust and connection with …
The Relationship Institute
This is a handout we use with couples who are trying to rebuild trust after an infidelity or other losses of faith that include lying or deception. We suggest that the betrayed partner go through …
Rebuilding trust worksheet .pages - betterpleasure.net
Rebuilding Trust. Below is a list of reasonable accountability behaviors you may need in order for your trust to be rebuilt. Put an X next to the behaviors you need right now. Share those with …
The Workbook for
you, but it can impact your partner and limit trust and intimacy. Most people find a dozen or more behaviors on this list that they recognize in themselves. Use this knowledge to identify how …
Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship Worksheets (book)
Rebuilding trust in a relationship is an ongoing process that demands time, patience, and dedication from both partners. While worksheets can provide a framework for communication …
CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY
1. Build trust. A primary, or foundational, piece of any intimate relationship is the ability to trust and be trusted. Having an afair, lying to your partner, cheating, withholding information, or …
Learning to Trust Others - Between Sessions
Write a letter to a person you distrust. List your reasons for the lack of trust and feelings and beliefs you have. Tell the person what you are willing to do to build trust. Include what you will …
Rebuilding Trust in Your Marriage After an Affair
Restoring the fun and friendship in the marriage is a key step in rebuilding after infidelity. They need to recommit to the relationship and make time for one another each day. It is important to …
Building Trust Exercises Worksheets - Ineffable Living
Building Trust Exercises Worksheets. 1. Reflection on Trust: Reflect on your current views and experiences with trust. How easily do you trust others, and what factors influence your trust …
The Couples Communica0on Workbook - Between Sessions
This book offers fiiy-two worksheets that will help couples learn strategies to manage their emo=ons in construc=ve ways, instead of turning to behaviors that erode their rela=onship. …
CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY
Build trust. A primary, or foundational, piece of any intimate relationship is the ability to trust and be trusted. Having an afair, lying to your partner, cheating, withholding information, or stealing …
