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| how to perform erotic massage: Ultimate Erotic Massage Kavida Rei, 2010-01-14 Sensual massage techniques for enhancing sexual pleasure, in e-book format Explore the full sensual potential of massage with this practical and inspirational companion to enjoying the most erotic, intense and passionate lovemaking experiences. Master over 100 erotic massage techniques to heighten arousal, enhance sex and deepen orgasm. Discover how to pleasure every part of the body, with step-by-step ways to tease and please, from the neck to you and your partner�s most intimate parts. Create the ultimate massage experience through fantasy, role-play, toys and erotic love games. With tips on oral and manual strokes and complete guidance on how to perform a full body massage, you�ll learn to add a powerful new dimension to your sex life. |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Art of Sensual Massage Gordon Inkeles, 2011-10 With a warm, quiet place and a bottle of oil--and this incredible book--you can spread pleasure over every inch of your partner's body. For more than a million readers The Art of Sensual Massage is more than a book, it's an unforgettable sensual experience. Techniques are beautifully illustrated with hundreds of gorgeous black and white photos.. Rare color photos, taken during the book's original photo sessions have been added to this edition. Instructions are easy-to-learn. Ten minutes after you open this book you will be doing a sensual massage. This updated edition has the best paper and photo reproduction plus many text updates. From the book: In a world full of expensive gadgets futilely designed to increase enjoyment of life it is enormously satisfying to realize that you can give so much pleasure just using your hands. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Massage Charla Hathaway, 2007-05-01 Learn sensual touch for improved intimacy and better sex! Erotic Massage shows how to bring your partner to high levels of arousal, keeping him or her in this state of sexual exaltation for an extended period. This beautifully illustrated book provides erotic massage techniques for both men and women and breaks down these massage methods step-by-step. You'll find suggestions for the appropriate setting, lubrication, good communication, and conscious breathing. More than 60 sensual, how-to photographs and illustrations are featured throughout, as well as testimonials on how erotic massage has improved many couples' intimacy and sex lives. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Sensual Massage Susan Mumford, 2002-03-01 Offering your partner the sensual pleasure of a massage brings special feelings of satisfaction. Do it with skill, passion, and creativity with these intimate, beautiful photos and instructions. Learn the different strokes (effleurage, petrissage, friction, others), and when and how to use each one. Vary your touch to make it loving, erotic, or playful. Give the 20-minute relaxing massage or indulge in a longer, stimulating one where senses heighten and bodies make full contact. Mix romance with relaxation or upgrade your seduction skills.--www.HoneyMag.com. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Massage Rosalind Widdowson, Stephen Marriott, 2007 With top-to-toe sensual massage, this title will enable you to discover a whole new world of erotic play. Packed with techniques drawn from Thai, Tantric and Western traditions, it explores a range of sexually charged movements and manipulations, with some surprising additions and variations. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Massage Kenneth Ray Stubbs, 1999-01-25 With more than one hundred erotic drawings and a full-color insert, Erotic Massage provides easy-to-learn strokes and methods that allow you and your partner to bring together the sensual, the erotic, and the intimate. The detailed illustrations and instructions can be easily absorbed in one evening so that sensual techniques of Erotic Massage can be enjoyed immediately. Millions of readers are experiencing the sexual rewards of Tantric lovemaking - and Erotic Massage is among the most accessible and explicit works to bring Tantric methods to Western couples. Written and illustrated with profound sensitivity, Erotic Massage is a lovemaking manual on its way to becoming a classic. |
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| how to perform erotic massage: The Generous Husband Paul Byerly, 2004-11 Would your marriage improve if you could give your wife what she most wants? Generosity can work wonders, but only if you give what is most wanted. This book, which will help you target your giving, contains over 400 tips designed to meet her needs in the areas of touch, romance, gifts, service, a shared walk, communication, prayer, affirmation, time, and sex. Includes special tips for holidays and parents. Additional sections: Massage - Sexual and Non-Sexual Cooking for the Citchen Clueless The Flood - AKA Menstruation Buying Lingerie - Without Dying of Embarrassment Paul H. Byerly began e-mailing generous tips in 2001. His daily Generous Husband messages are now received by over two thousand men around the world. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Ultimate Erotic Massage Kavida Rei, 2010-01-14 Sensual massage techniques for enhancing sexual pleasure, in e-book format Explore the full sensual potential of massage with this practical and inspirational companion to enjoying the most erotic, intense and passionate lovemaking experiences. Master over 100 erotic massage techniques to heighten arousal, enhance sex and deepen orgasm. Discover how to pleasure every part of the body, with step-by-step ways to tease and please, from the neck to you and your partner's most intimate parts. Create the ultimate massage experience through fantasy, role-play, toys and erotic love games. With tips on oral and manual strokes and complete guidance on how to perform a full body massage, you'll learn to add a powerful new dimension to your sex life. |
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| how to perform erotic massage: The Complete Idiot's Guide to Sensual Massage Patti Britton, Helen Hodgson, Helen Hodgson Lerma, 2003 Massages to relax, delight, and arouse... 'If there ever was a manual that offered a step-by-step approach to putting the pep back into marriage or bringing new lovers closer, it's this one.'-Laurie Sue Brockway, author of A Goddess is a Girl's Best Friend- A Divine Guide to Finding Love, Success and Happiness Features- In touch massage techniques that help you relax-or stimulate-one another Pleasure zones for you to explore-from head to toe Ambient ideas to create the perfect space for sensuality |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Massage Book George Downing, 1972 Complete book of massage techniques for friends and lovers. Explains in step-by-step detail the most satisfying massage methods and their meaning and purpose. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Pure Erotic Massage Nicole Bailey, 2007-09 The art of massage has been used for thousands of years to enhance sexual pleasure--and now partners can find out what they’ve been missing! Go on a journey through the traditional practices and find out how to use the Tantric Touch to enhance the spiritual connection alongside the sexual. This manual is packed with techniques and visualizations to transport you to realms of uncharted pleasure, including a tantalizing burst of water stimulation, the intricacies of G-spot massage, and the mysterious sensations from a silk scarf or soft brush. With photography and a special double-page feature in each chapter to give ideas for creative massage sequences, this guide is sure to spice up your sex life! |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Massage for Couples Sylvia Patterson, 2015-01-27 This comprehensive manual is an invitation to discover the secrets of erotic massage for couples. Erotic Massage for Couples teaches you, step-by-step—with the help of one hundred color photos—how to unleash your new sensual experiences onto your partner. This comprehensive, practical book includes: • A guide to the points of greatest pleasure • Advanced techniques for couples • Homemade recipes for massage oils • Aromatherapy to awaken the five senses • Bedroom feng shui • Tricks to convert your bathroom to a spa • Aphrodisiac dishes and beverages • Automassage techniques • And much more! |
| how to perform erotic massage: Sensual Massage Nitya LaCroix, 1990-10-15 Tender and erotic, a sensual massage is a highly pleasureable experience--and one of the best ways of expressing love and affection. Combining sensitive photographs and easy-to-follow instructions, it includes recipes for oils and aromatherapy and original massage programs especially devised to relax, delight and arouse both men and women. Full-color photographs. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Massage Caffyn Jesse, 2015-02 It is your birthright to live a life filled with erotic joy. This book will show you how to make it so, and how to teach others, through touch. You will learn about sexual healing, erotic energy cultivation, and sensual and erotic massage. Caffyn Jesse gives stroke-by-stroke instructions for pleasuring penises and vulvas. Chapters on orgasm coaching will vastly expand your orgasmic capacities. Her toolbox includes techniques ranging from scar tissue healing to spanking. Original illustrations show the specifics of pelvic, genital and anal anatomy. Powerful practices guide you in awakening the full potential of your sexuality. Erotic massage provides an ideal environment for healing and learning about sex. But without appropriate safeguards and clear boundaries, erotic massage can retraumatize already wounded people. Caffyn Jesse offers vital guidance on the ethics of practice. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Press Here! Sensual Massage for Beginners Sydney Price, 2021-07-27 Learn how to practice the art of sensual massage, with yourself and/or a partner, with Sensual Massage for Beginners. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Partner Massage Christine Unseld-Baumanns, 1990 Over 250 beautiful full-color photos and clear instructions show you exactly where to touch and what to do. You start with all the classic stretches, rubs, and squeezes, then move on to the unique Rolf deep-massage process and the ancient Shiatsu methods. Also oils, creams, lighting, music and more. 136 pages (all in color), 8 1/4 x 10 1/4. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Sensual Massage Made Simple Gordon Inkeles, 2010-04 An easy-to-learn, tremendously effective sensual massage program in a handy 6 X 9 format. The book takes you step-by-step through an easy-to-learn program for a complete body massage. The enclosed, shrink-wrapped DVD is closely keyed to the book. Readers can read about a stroke, then watch it come to life on the screen, with essential pressures and rhythms clearly shown. Gordon Inkeles' first massage film, The Art of Sensual Massage was featured at the Cannes Film Festival and won 6 additional awards at international film festivals. The beautiful photos on every page, many with matching graphics, make the book as enjoyable to browse as it is to use. Nobody does sensual massage like the market leader, Gordon Inkeles, author of the million-seller, The Art of Sensual Massage. This handy guide is perfect as a romantic gift or travel companion. It's the easiest way yet to learn the delightful art of sensual massage. Printed on high quality paper the book includes a layflat binding that stays open during massage. |
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| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Massage Anne Hooper, 2004-12-27 Step-by-step illustrations and great tips for erotic stimulation show you how to enrich you love-making through the power of touch. The book features more than 200 all new erotic and vibrant photographs which demonstrate sensual touching. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Sensual Massage on a String Gordon Inkeles, 2015-02-25 From the author of the million-seller The Art of Sensual Massage, comes a revolutionary product with the most effective massage program ever. Sensual Massage on a String is a gorgeously photographed, shrink-wrapped deck of 60 laminated cards--with massage on BOTH sides. Readers can choose to learn a full body massage or focus on intensely pleasurable strokes for any area from head to toe. Dozens of proven techniques for stress control, pregnancy, erotic massage, relaxation and much more are included. Packed inside, two push pins and a length of elastic string make it easy to hang--or spread out--cards anywhere. |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Financial Diet Chelsea Fagan, Lauren Ver Hage, 2018-01-02 A guide to personal finance that will help teach budgeting skills, stocking a budget-friendly kitchen, talking to friends about money, investing, and more. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Pocket Erotic Nicole Bailey, 2008-09 Touch, tease, stimulate and explore every inch of your lover! This sensational guide teaches you tantalizing touch techniques guaranteed to make your partner moan with pleasure, from a toe-tingling foot massage to an erotic wake-up call. Turn up the heat, by delving deeply and discovering hot spots your lover didn’t even know existed. Fire up foreplay to new heights of pleasure, from using your tongue as the ultimate massage tool to creating an erotic toy-box guaranteed to banish bedtime boredom forever. Experiment with new sexual positions and see how to enhance them with a simple caress. More than 60 inspiring illustrative photographs display these tried-and-tested techniques—which are guaranteed to bring excitement, greater sexual fulfilment, and a new intimacy to lovemaking. |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Joy of Sensual Massage Jack L. Hofer, 1989 Here is an accessible, easygoing guide to one of the oldest and most effective of the therapeutic arts. Illustrated with attractive ink washes and featuring step-by-step instructions, the book discusses many different massage techniques from around the world, including Swedish, shiatsu and acupressure. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Super Massage Gordon Inkeles, 2001-05 An easy-to-use pictorial and textual manual for simple, effective drugless stress control in every area of life. Gordon Inkeles shows how readers can master simple, scientifically proven massage techniques that turn pain into pleasure and reduce stress. Includes three and four minute relief regimes for headaches, neck and shoulder pain, insomnia, back pain and nervous tension as well as ten minute erotic massages and circulatory stimulations. Large photographs demonstrate all techniques. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Anal Fingering Sexual Technique. Classic Erotic Massage. Technique of Classic Fellation Alexander Lyubimoff , 2018-03-12 French pornographic film actor and director Pierre Woodman called this book totally fake, fraud book, total Scam!, and stated,a legal action is considered on our side. This book is devoted to the revolution in sexual technique, which occurs in our time. This e-book is a Bestseller in Russia. Russian edition: Moscow, 2015, ISBN 978-5-600-01253-0. The book contains information that has not previously been published, has the high consumer value. The book describes the anal fingering sexual technique, that makes you able to achieve orgasm in almost any healthy female. The book describes the technique of erotic massage, through which you will bring a woman to a state of sexual trance. The book describes the technique of classical blowjob with improvisations, including deep blowjob. There is no talking and medical terms in the book, these are short, concise, simple and clear explanations of sexual technique. In this book You will find unique information, to reach which by yourself will not suffice all life. The book is being sold by more than 100 dealers over the Internet in Russia, USA, UK, Germany, France, Italy, Holland, Spain, Japan, Canada, Australia, Mexico, Brazil and India. The total number of downloads: 56221 Positive reviews: 346 Negative reviews: 15 |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Tao of Sexual Massage Stephen Russell, 2008-06-30 Make the most of your lovemaking with this bestselling guide to erotic massage. Massage is a simple way for couples to awaken their desire and bring more intimacy and passion to their love life. The Tao of Sexual Massage shows how to master the techniques that will make your touch both tender and titillating. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Erotic Chinese Massage Wang-puh Wei, Chris Evans, 2015-08-18 This book helps to strengthen bonds of affection and to discover the secrets of the sexual massage of the ancient Chinese Taoists. You will discover and better get to know the most erotic places on your partner’s body, their erogenous zones, and the tricks that awaken their desire and predispose them to pleasure. Chinese erotic massage reunites traditional knowledge of a millennial culture and puts within your reach all the techniques to enjoy a better sex life. You will learn: • To discover with your fingers the most sensitive parts of the body through the techniques of acupressure that favor the flow of internal energy • The most appropriate massage for every occasion to obtain the best results • How to apply the appropriate amount of pressure during a massage • And so much more! Learn to let the energy flow through the interior of your body, quiet your mind, and feed the spirit through the caresses. Communicate with your partner and understand your desires without necessarily expressing them out loud; little by little, your sexual life will open itself to a new world full of possibilities! |
| how to perform erotic massage: Split the Pie Barry Nalebuff, 2022-03-08 From a leading Yale expert and serial entrepreneur, a radical, principled, and field-tested approach that identifies what’s really at stake in any negotiation and ensures you get your half—so you can focus on growing the pie. Negotiations are incredibly stressful and can bring out the worst in people. Wouldn’t it be better if there were a principled way to negotiate? Wouldn’t it be even better if there were a way to treat people fairly and get treated fairly in a negotiation? Split the Pie offers a new approach that does both—a field-tested method that reframes how negotiations play out. Barry Nalebuff, a professor at Yale School of Management, helps identify what’s really at stake in a negotiation: the “pie.” The negotiation pie is the additional value created through an agreement to work together. Seeing the relevant pie will change how you think about fairness and power in negotiation. You’ll learn how to get half the value you create, no matter your size. Filled with examples and in-depth case studies, Split the Pie is a practical and theory-based approach to negotiation. You’ll see how it helped reframe a high-stakes negotiation when Coca-Cola purchased Honest Tea, a company Barry cofounded with his former student Seth Goldman. The pie framework also works for everyday negotiations. You’ll learn how to deploy logic to determine truly equitable solutions and employ empathy to expand the pie and sell your solution. Split the Pie allows both sides to focus their energy on making the biggest possible pie—to have your pie and eat it too. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Massage Is Weird Ian Harvey, 2021-11-26 Reclaim the magic of massage. If you're feeling burned out, we can beat it. If you're worried about starting your own business, we can conquer those fears. If you think you suck at massage, you're wrong. Massage is weird. There, I said it, and I'd say it again. Whether it's communicating with first time clients, figuring out how the puzzle of pain works (and why it sometimes seems impossible to solve), or creeper-proofing your practice, it can be a lot for one person to figure out all on their own. That's why we'll figure it out together! Take the leap of faith with me and we'll demystify the mysterious, bust a few massage myths, and learn how to drop the worries and start focusing on outcomes. We'll get through it together, one chapter at a time. |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Tree Show Mark Ryden, 2008 Original publication and copyright date: 2008. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Behold!!! the Protong Stanislav Szukalski, 2019-05 This book represents a partial reprinting of the classics 1980 publication. It is but a small review of the science of Zermatism realized by Szukalski since 1940. The drawings herein were chosen from over 40,000 illustrations made for the Zermatism oeuvre, representing, in particular, some of the most important subjects as Universal Pictograph, the Flood Scumline and Anthropolitical Motivations. This is the first book in 50 years to bring Szukalski's work to the light of the American public. |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Book of Massage Lucinda Liddell, 2012-11-20 A beautifully illustrated introductory guide to the healing powers of a massage, from traditional massage to shiatsu and reflexology. The Book of Massage is the classic guide to the relaxing and healing skills of the hands. Featuring both Eastern and Western methods, it presents step-by-step, beautifully illustrated instructions on everything from traditional massage to shiatsu and reflexology. The Book of Massage offers easy-to-follow techniques for giving the perfect massage, including advice on creating the right setting and suggestions for using aromatic oils and lotions. Now revised and updated with fresh color photos and drawings throughout, The Book of Massage is a simple and comprehensive handbook that reveals how you can experience the myriad benefits of giving and receiving a soothing massage. |
| how to perform erotic massage: 365 Sex Moves Randi Foxx, 2012-12-01 Get ready for the best year of your life! 365 Sex Moves offers couples hot and exciting positions for every day of the year. Filled with stunning photography and short technique descriptions that get right to the point, this book allows you to simply pick-up-and-play and do the position shown. Whether you’re interested in trying something just a little different or are ready for an advanced acrobatic position, 365 Sex Moves has it all. With this sexy little guide, you’ll never know what the day—or night—will bring. |
| how to perform erotic massage: The New Art of Erotic Massage Andrew Yorke, 2007 This text demonstrates key techniques through descriptive language and detailed photography, unravelling the best ways to sensually massage your partner. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Tantric Massage for Love Fill Sunrik, 2016-04-26 In an open, honest and direct manner, discuss your personal sexual taboos with your partner and then break them! Here Is A Preview Of What You Will Learn... Myths and Reality of Tantric Massage The Dogmas and Laws of Tantra An Intimate World of Tantric Massage Technique and Practice of Tantric Massage Massage of the Prostate Massage for Women During the Critical Days Technique and Rules Tantric Sex Three Reasons to Have Tantric Sex The Practice, Which Could Lead to the Valley Orgasm Another Practice for Smooth Orgasm The Atmosphere and Aura of Tantric Sex |
| how to perform erotic massage: The Art of Receiving and Giving Betty Martin, 2021-02-19 Why would most people endure unwanted or unsatisfying touch, rather than speak up for their own boundaries and desires? It's a question with a myriad of answers - and one that Dr. Betty Martin has explored in her 40+ years as a hands-on practitioner, first as a chiropractor and later as a Somatic Sex Educator, Certified Surrogate Partner and Sacred Intimate. In her client sessions, she noticed a pattern wherein many clients would allow or go along with discomfort or unease rather than speak up for what they wanted or didn't want. Betty discovered there was a major component missing for people -- the confidence that we have a choice about what is happening to us. In her framework, The Wheel of Consent(R) Betty traces the fundamental roots of consent back to our childhood conditioning. As children, we are taught that to be good we must ignore our body's discomfort and be compliant: to finish our food even if we're full, to go to bed - even if we're not tired, to let relatives hug and kiss us even if we don't want to. We learn that our feelings don't matter more than what is happening, and that we don't have a choice but to go along, whether or not we want it. As adults, this conditioning remains with us until we have an opportunity to unlearn it, which is why consent violations are often only called out after the violation has occurred - because we have not been taught or empowered to notice our boundaries, much less value or express our internal signals as the unwanted action is happening. In this book, Betty guides the reader through the Wheel of Consent framework, and shares practices to help us recover the ability to notice what we want and set clear boundaries. While the practices are based on exchanges of touch, they can also be learned without touch. In these practices, we discover that the Art of Giving includes knowing our own limits so we can be more generous within those limits, and not give beyond our capacity - a common problem which creates feelings of resentment or martyrdom. We also discover that the Art of Receiving invites us to notice and ask for what we really want, and not just what we think we are supposed to want. This knowledge, and its embodied practice, is foundational for creating clear agreements and bringing more satisfaction into relationships. While much of consent education focuses on noticing what we don't want, or prevention of violation, Betty has developed a pleasure-forward approach to teaching consent. By first accessing and awakening (sometimes re-awakening) our bodies' relationship to pleasure and what we want, we can practice noticing and verbalizing what we don't want. Such an approach provides a more holistic frame in which to unlearn the childhood conditioning that taught us to be silent and compliant, and in which individuals can learn to ask for what they want and state what they don't, in a more empowered way. The implications of this approach to consent education extends beyond touch and intimate relationships. When we forget how to notice what we really want, we lose our inner compass. When we continue to go along with things we don't feel are right, we lose our ability to speak up against injustice. This has a profound effect on society. We allow all manner of inequality, corruption, theft of natural resources and our planet's future health - because going along with it feels normal. The Wheel of Consent offers a deeply nuanced way to practice consent as an agreement that brings integrity, responsibility, and empowerment into human interaction, starting with touch and relationships, and further expanding our understanding of consent to social issues of equality and justice. |
| how to perform erotic massage: Easy to Learn Sexual Massage Deborah Glass, 2014-09-23 Tantric massage is a great way to provide erotic pleasure and sexual healing for you and your partner. Yoni (Vagina) and Lingam (Penis) are two of the oldest types of Tantric massage techniques in the world. This basic guide will give you an introduction to simple and easy to learn techniques that you can start using right away. Includes graphic and explicit detail of sexually stimulating massage. Do not read if you are uncomfortable with sexual massage techniques. |
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