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| emotional sobriety worksheets: Emotional Sobriety Aa Grapevine, 2011 Volume Two of one of our most popular books. Sober AA members describe the positive transformations sobriety can bring as they practice the principles of the program in all aspects of their lives. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Running on Empty Jonice Webb, 2012-10-01 A large segment of the population struggles with feelings of being detached from themselves and their loved ones. They feel flawed, and blame themselves. Running on Empty will help them realize that they're suffering not because of something that happened to them in childhood, but because of something that didn't happen. It's the white space in their family picture, the background rather than the foreground. This will be the first self-help book to bring this invisible force to light, educate people about it, and teach them how to overcome it. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Overcoming Your Alcohol or Drug Problem Dennis C. Daley, G. Alan Marlatt, 2006-06-15 A substance use problem exists when one experiences any type of difficulty related to using alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs including illicit street drugs or prescribed drugs such as painkillers or tranquilizers. The difficulty can be in any area of life; medical or physical, psychological, family, interpersonal, social, academic, occupational, legal, financial, or spiritual. This expanded new edition of the successful Graywind Publications title provides the reader with practical information and skills to help them understand and change a drug or alcohol problem. Designed to be used in conjunction with therapy or counseling, it focuses on special issues involved in stopping substance use and in changing behaviors or aspects of one's lifestyle that keep the substance use problem active. The information presented is derived from a wealth of research studies, and discusses the most effective recovery strategies from the examination of cognitive-behavoral treatment. TreatmentsThatWorkTM represents the gold standard of behavioral healthcare interventions! · All programs have been rigorously tested in clinical trials and are backed by years of research · A prestigious scientific advisory board, led by series Editor-In-Chief David H. Barlow, reviews and evaluates each intervention to ensure that it meets the highest standard of evidence so you can be confident that you are using the most effective treatment available to date · Our books are reliable and effective and make it easy for you to provide your clients with the best care available · Our corresponding workbooks contain psychoeducational information, forms and worksheets, and homework assignments to keep clients engaged and motivated · A companion website (www.oup.com/us/ttw) offers downloadable clinical tools and helpful resources · Continuing Education (CE) Credits are now available on select titles in collaboration with PsychoEducational Resources, Inc. (PER) |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Emotional Sobriety Tian Dayton, 2010-01-01 Picking up right at the point where Janet Woititz’s 1990 hit book Adult Children of Alcoholics left off, clinical psychologist Tian Dayton’s latest contribution contains fresh perspectives and new analysis on how to gain back emotional stability after growing up with the trauma of addiction, abuse, and dysfunction. Dr. Dayton accomplishes this by presenting and explaining the latest research in neuropsychology and the role trauma plays on chemically altering the brain. With compassion and clear explanations and her own personal journey, Dayton teaches readers how to undo the neuropsychological damage of trauma to rewire the brain and reverse the negative effects trauma has on our future relationships and behaviors to gain emotional sobriety. In Emotional Sobriety, Dr. Dayton teaches readers: How to understand the mind/body relationship of addiction and relationship trauma How to rewire your brain to undo the negative effects trauma has on personal, career, and romantic relationships How changing the way one lives and perceives adult relationships can change the way one thinks and feels and vice versa |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety Allen Berger, 2021-06-08 . . |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: 12 Smart Things to Do When the Booze and Drugs Are Gone Allen Berger, 2010-09-08 The author of the classic 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery offers a fresh list of smart things to do to attain and sustain emotional sobriety. Learn the attitudes and behaviors that are key to attaining and sustaining emotional sobriety and developing a deeper trust in the process of life. Dr. Allen Berger draws on the teachings of Bill W. and psychotherapy pioneers to offer us twelve hallmarks of emotional sobriety. These “right actions” help us develop the confidence to be accountable for our behavior, to practice asking for what we want and need, and to cultivate a deeper trust in the process of life. Dr. Berger’s list of smart things includes understanding who you are and what’s important to you learning not to take others’ reactions personally trusting your inner compass Through practicing these twelve things, we find release from what Bill W. described as an “absolute dependence on people or circumstances. Freed from the emotional immaturity that fueled our addictive personality and hurt ourselves and others, we can develop the tools to find strength from within and continue our successful journey of recovery. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: The Recovering Heart Beverly Conyers, 2013-05-28 Your old, destructive lifestyle is fading into the past and now you are a woman in recovery. What an amazing gift you’ve given yourself. So why aren’t you happier? As sobriety takes hold and your head starts to clear, a wide range of emotions can begin to emerge—feelings that until now you’ve “medicated” with chemicals. Yet to stay sober, and to grow and flourish as a person, you must engage in healing and take responsibility for these long-neglected emotions. Beverly Conyers, a prominent voice in recovery, uses personal stories and informed insight to guide you in achieving emotional sobriety by addressing behaviors and feelings unique to the female experience. Learn how to develop the inner resiliency to face and process difficult, buried emotions—such as shame, grief, fear, and anger—while freeing the positive feelings of self- worth, independence, and integrity. Discover how to heal your “damaged self” by improving your communication skills, expanding your capacity for intimacy and trust, and reawakening a spiritual life. As you heal your wounded heart, you can free yourself to a life of self-acceptance and lay the foundation for a rewarding and relapse-free second stage of recovery. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Alcoholics Anonymous Bill W., 2014-09-04 A 75th anniversary e-book version of the most important and practical self-help book ever written, Alcoholics Anonymous. Here is a special deluxe edition of a book that has changed millions of lives and launched the modern recovery movement: Alcoholics Anonymous. This edition not only reproduces the original 1939 text of Alcoholics Anonymous, but as a special bonus features the complete 1941 Saturday Evening Post article “Alcoholics Anonymous” by journalist Jack Alexander, which, at the time, did as much as the book itself to introduce millions of seekers to AA’s program. Alcoholics Anonymous has touched and transformed myriad lives, and finally appears in a volume that honors its posterity and impact. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: It's Not About the Sex Andrew Susskind, 2019-06-11 Ending compulsive sexual behavior is just the beginning. Drawing on personal and professional experience, psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with brokenheartedness and trauma. He offers strategies to cultivate sustainable sexual sobriety, sharing his own healing narrative, as well as those of others who’ve chosen to bare their truths. No one is ever too hurt or isolated to achieve reliable relationships and emotional intimacy. This is a guidebook for every person seeking long-term healing from sex addiction. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Step 11 AA Mel B., 2010-10-08 Doing things our way got us into trouble. Now it is time to develop a relationship with our Higher Power in order to carry out God's will for us. This pamphlet explains the many benefits to us. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: There's More to Quitting Drinking than Quitting Drinking Dr. Paul O., 2022-01-14 And acceptance is the answer to all my problems ... You may already know of Dr. Paul's wisdom through the often-quoted passage from his story in the 3rd and 4th editions of A.A.'s Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous. Dr. Paul continues sharing his astute insight and gentle humor in There's More To Quitting Drinking Than Quitting Drinking with discussions of the physical, mental, emotional, interpersonal and spiritual aspects of sobriety. Acceptance, Dr. Paul writes, has to be repeated over and over and over again with every new situation and circumstance. It isn't a destination; it's a continuous process, a journey, a philosophy, a way of life.” This book is for the person who has achieved his or her initial goal in a Twelve Step program and now wants more -- more of everything the program has to offer, more of everything they can get by expanding their thinking and extending themselves. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: 12-Step Workbook for Recovering Alcoholics, Including Powerful 4th-Step Worksheets, 2018 Revised Edition Iam Pastal, 2019-02 A great book for completing the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. It includes four simple yet powerful worksheets for doing AA's 4th step and a very simple and powerful approach to Step 7. This revised addition also includes a new appendix describing how the author sponsors newcomers. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Drop the Rock--The Ripple Effect Fred H., 2016-05-24 Drop the Rock—The Ripple Effect provides multiple perspectives from people successfully working a Twelve Step Program, showing Step 10 as a key to a sober life free of fear and resentment and filled with serenity and gratitude. When Drop the Rock: Removing Character Defects was first published in 1999, it quickly became the standard resource for working Steps 6 and 7, two of the most challenging of the Twelve Steps for many people in recovery. Learning what it means to fully surrender character defects frees you to make amends with Steps 8 and 9, realize the Big Book’s “Promises,” and move on to Step 10. In this new follow-up resource, Fred H. explores what he calls “the ripple effect” that can be created by using Step 10 to practice Steps 6 and 7 every day and avoid picking up “the rock” again. Drawing on his years of lecturing on the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, he reveals Step 10 as the natural culmination of working the previous Steps. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Recovering Spirituality Ingrid Clayton, 2011-08-24 Guides those in recovery in developing the awareness and skills to deal with life's issues by practicing authentic spirituality and emotional sobriety. Spirituality is a critical aspect of the Twelve Steps and other recovery programs. Yet, for those of us disposed to addiction, it can be easy to get so caught up in the idea of our Higher Power and the abundant joys of a spiritual life that we experience spiritual bypass--the use of spirituality to avoid dealing with ourselves, our emotions, and our unfinished business.In Recovering Spirituality, researcher and clinical psychologist Ingrid Mathieu uses personal stories and practical advice to teach us how to grow up emotionally and take responsibility for ourselves. Without turning away from the true benefits of an active spiritual program, she shows us how to work through life's challenges and periods of pain while evolving and maintaining an authentic relationship with our Higher Power. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Relationships in Recovery Kelly E. Green, 2021-08-06 Addiction can wreak havoc on relationships, destroying trust and damaging bonds with family, friends, and colleagues. Substance use both causes these interpersonal problems and becomes a method of trying to cope with them. Psychologist and addictions expert Kelly Green has learned through working with hundreds of clients that maintaining healthy relationships is key to the recovery process. In this compassionate, judgment-free guide, Dr. Green shares powerful tools for setting and maintaining boundaries, communicating feelings and needs, ending harmful relationships respectfully, and reestablishing emotional intimacy. With inspiring narratives, downloadable self-assessment worksheets, and exercises, this book lights the way to a life untethered from addiction--and filled with positive connections-- |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Twelve Steps to Spiritual Awakening Herb K., 2016-09-21 Herb K., who is also the author of Twelve Step Guide to Using the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book, continues sharing his insights to the Twelve Steps by explaining the how and why, using his own experience along with traditional and universal spiritual wisdom. This book illuminates a path from the dark world of alcoholism and brokenness to a life of peace, purpose and fulfillment. Herb K. leads Twelve Step workshops, retreats and teaches spirituality and recovery throughout the U.S. and the world. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Drop the Rock Bill P., Todd W., Sara S., 2009-06-03 A practical guide to letting go of the character defects that get in the way of true and joyful recovery. Resentment. Fear. Self-Pity. Intolerance. Anger. As Bill P. explains, these are the rocks that can sink recovery- or at the least, block further progress. Based on the principles behind Steps Six and Seven, Drop the Rock combines personal stories, practical advice, and powerful insights to help readers move forward in recovery. The second edition features additional stories and a reference section. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Sexy. Strong. Sober. A Recovery Journal, 2019-05-28 This sobriety journal has been created to help you capture your progress during your fight against addiction. The journal is a 60 days planner for alcoholism & drug addiction recovery and each double page allows you to: define a daily goal and track your daily mood write down a positive affirmation take notes about your thoughts draw daily conclusions (did I stay sober? what did I accomplish today?) The journal also contains some advises and exemples to create positive affirmation and fill daily pages in order to help you down the road to recovery. This makes a great gift for any loved one fighting against addiction. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: The Mindfulness Workbook for Addiction Rebecca E. Williams, Julie S. Kraft, 2012-08-01 Most addictive behavior is rooted in some type of loss, be it the death of a loved one, coming to terms with limitations set by chronic health problems, or the end of a relationship. By turning to drugs and alcohol, people who have suffered a loss can numb their grief. In the process, they postpone their healing and can drive themselves further into addiction. The Mindfulness Workbook for Addiction offers readers an effective program for working through their addiction and grief with cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). Created by a psychologist who works for the Department of Veterans Affairs and a marriage and family therapist who works for Sharp Mesa Vista Hospital, this mindfulness training workbook is effective for treating the emotion dysregulation, stress, depression, and grief that lie at the heart of addiction. No matter the loss, the mindfulness skills in this workbook help readers process their grief, determine the function their addiction is serving, and replace the addiction with healthy coping behaviors. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: The Narcotics Anonymous Step Working Guides , 1998-01-01 Narcotics Anonymous Step Working Guides are meant to be used by NA members at any stage of recovery, whether it's the first time through the steps, or whether they have been a guiding force for many years. This book is intentionally written to be relevant to newcomers and to help more experienced memebers develop a deeper understanding of the Twelve Steps. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: The 30-Day Sobriety Solution Jack Canfield, Dave Andrews, 2016-01-19 A groundbreaking program to help you cut back or quit drinking entirely--in the privacy of your own home-- |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Living Clean: The Journey Continues Fellowship of Narcotics Anonymous, |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: 100 Interactive Activities Carol A. Butler, MS Ed Butler, 2001-01-01 This book includes 14 topics and 100 interactive activities with reproducible worksheets for mental health and substance abuse recovery programs. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery Allen Berger, 2009-06-03 In addition to staying connected to our support systems and avoiding opportunities to use during the coronavirus pandemic, we can also keep confronting and conquering the self-destructive things we think and do that undercut our health and sanity. Concise advice on hunting down the personal culprits that sabotage sobriety and personal happiness. To grow in recovery, we must grow up emotionally. This means getting honest with ourselves and facing up to the self-defeating thoughts and actions that put our sobriety at risk. Although there are as many ways to mess up recovery as there are alcoholics and addicts, some general themes exist, which include: confusing self-concern with selfishness; not making amends; using the program to try to become perfect; not getting help for relationship troubles; and believing that life should be easy. In simple, down-to-earth language, Allen Berger explores the twelve most commonly confronted beliefs and attitudes that can sabotage recovery. He then provides tools for working through these problems in daily life. This useful guide offers fresh perspectives on how the process of change begins with basic self-awareness and a commitment to working a daily program. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Fully Human Susan Packard, 2019 HGTV cofounder Susan Packard launches the next chapter in emotional intelligence (EQ), and shows you how to increase your personal satisfaction and productivity--in work and life--via her three-step path toward EQ Fitness. Emotions can sink us, or they can power us like fuel to succeed. Many of us show up for work, and life, feeling lonely even in a room full of people, or bringing unproductive emotions into work, like anger or fear. You don't have to feel this way. Susan Packard offers an accessible new guidebook to grow your emotional fitness, and it's arrived just in time, as technology is quickly becoming our main interface for communication. No matter where you are in your career, success is an inside job. Packard lays out how to develop interdependent work relationships, and for leaders, how to build healthy company cultures. Packard introduces us to successful people, and companies, that are rich with 'connector' emotions like hope, empathy and trust-building. She tackles unconventional topics, like how workaholism keeps us emotionally adolescent, and how forgiveness belongs in the workplace too. Packard shares her EQ Fit-catalyzed success at HGTV and the stories of the executives she coaches in mindfulness and other emerging techniques, and she teaches an 'inside out' practice of self-discovery, which helps you uncover unproductive emotions, and dispel them. The best leaders balance power and grace, and everyone can effectively use resilience--an ability to endure tough situations and make tough decisions, and vulnerability, a willingness to open up, change, and admit when we need help. She offers new tools to bring our strongest emotional selves to work each day. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: It Takes A Family Debra Jay, 2014-10-21 As the coronavirus pandemic isolates us from many of our circles, the power of family connections to help loved ones succeed in recovery is as essential as ever. Counselor and interventionist Debra Jay shows alcoholics, other addicts, and their loved ones how to work collaboratively and as individuals to take on the roles and responsibilities that support long-term sobriety. Most books on recovery from addiction focus either on the addict or the family. While most alcoholics and addicts coming out of treatment have a recovery plan, families are often left to figure things out for themselves. In It Takes a Family, Debra Jay takes a fresh approach to the recovery process by making family members and friends part of the recovery team, beginning in the early stages of sobriety. In straightforward, compassionate language, she outlines a structured model that shows family members both how to take personal responsibility and to build a circle of support to meet the obstacles common to the first year of recovery. Together, family members address the challenges of enabling, denial, and pain while developing their communication skills through practical, easy-to-follow strategies and exercises designed to create transparency and accountability. With this invaluable guide, family members work together as they reinvent their relationships without the all-consuming dysfunction of active addiction. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: The EZ Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous Member A.A., 2015-06-30 Finally! The book that thousands of alcoholics have been waiting for! An updated version of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. This edited revision of the old, basic text is reader-friendly and carries the exact same message as the 1939 version of Alcoholics Anonymous. It's written in a style that's friendly to readers of any gender, race, or spiritual path. Until now, Bill Wilson's 1939 book has never been edited for modern readers. This book is for: Women who object to the sexist language in the original Big Book. The EZ Big Book is gender neutral. All partners of alcoholics, including gays and lesbians. The EZ Big Book makes no assumption about the genders or marital status of partners. Alcoholics at all reading levels. The language is reader-friendly and journalistic in tone. Readers of any faith, including agnostics. The spiritual references in the book are all-encompassing. Non-English speakers. Readers for whom English is a second language buy the EZ Big Book because the writing is simple and direct. About the Author The author is a retired science and nature writer with double-digit of sobriety. Her last years of drinking took her to emergency rooms several times and finally to rehab. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Rewired Erica Spiegelman, 2015-04-28 A counselor at one of the most innovative and renowned drug and alcohol treatment centers in the world introduces an empowering approach to addiction recovery that addresses the whole self—mind, body, and spirit This “useful and practical perspective on what you can do to recover from [addiction]” can replace or supplement 12-step programs—at any stage in your recovery (Allen Berger, Ph.D., author of 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery) Rewired is a new, breakthrough approach to fighting addiction and self-damaging behavior by acknowledging our personal power to bring ourselves back from the brink. Centered on the concept of self-actualization, Rewired will guide you towards not only physical sobriety, but a mental, emotional, and spiritual sobriety by learning to identify key principles within yourself, including authenticity, honesty, gratitude, and understanding a need for solitude. Rewired addresses the whole self; just as addiction affects every part of one’s life, so too must its treatment. By helping us to build a healthy space to support our own recovery, we can rewrite the negative behaviors that result in addiction. Usable in conjunction with or in place of 12-step programs, Rewired allows for a more holistic approach, helping to create a personalized treatment plan that is right for you. Each section in Rewired includes: • Personal anecdotes from the author’s own struggles with alcoholism and addiction • Inspiring true success stories of patients overcoming their addictions • Questions to engage you into finding what is missing from your recovery • Positive affirmations and intentions to guide and motivate With all the variables, both physical and emotional, that play into overcoming addiction, Rewired enables us to stay strong and positive as we progress on the path to recovery. Rewired teaches patience and compassion, the two cornerstones of a new, humanist approach to curing addiction. Remember, addicts are not broken people that need to be fixed—they just have a few crossed wires. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Now That You're Sober Earnie Larsen, Carol Larsen Hegarty, 2010-05-26 Written a decade before coronavirus pushed in-person meetings online and kept us home, this portable and practical workbook for the newly sober is a perfect coach for the present moment. In this portable recovery aftercare program, Earnie Larsen coaches readers through one full year of sobriety with personal, practical, actionable steps to help them refocus on the core concepts that are essential to sober living. Make no mistake about the intention of the guidance offered in this book. This is not just another nice recovery book--one that you read and then put aside, hopefully taking away a few good thoughts. My intention is that the material offered here should be chewed, pulled apart, scrutinized, and internalized. This book is designed to be worked. It is intended to provide support, insights, and exercises that will do something about the high relapse rate of people starting recovery.>-Earnie Larsen, From the introduction In this invaluable guide, renowned author and lecturer Earnie Larsen brings you a portable recovery aftercare program that you can easily integrate into your personal life ?and take with you anywhere you go.Now That You're Sober is an all-purpose, year-long compendium of recovery wisdom and inspiration to help those who are newly sober focus on practical applications of Twelve Step principles. Like a traditional aftercare program, it is designed to keep the basics of recovery front and center in your consciousness, as it is the loss of this awareness that causes relapse. In his characteristic down-to-earth, tell-it-like-it-is style, Larsen serves as your recovery coach, providing guidance and inspiration when you feel vulnerable in your sobriety, and helping you to move past common stumbling blocks and flourish in your daily life. Each of his fifty-two entries includes a motivational essay, or pep talk, centered on a key element of recovery, followed by personal, practical, actionable steps to help you refocus on the concepts and behaviors that are essential in a recovering person's life.Earnie Larsen is a nationally known pioneer in the field of recovery from addictive and unwanted behaviors. He has authored and produced more than fifty-five motivational self-help books and resources on a variety of topics ranging from managing interpersonal relationships to spirituality. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Forgiveness Therapy Dr Robert D Enright, Dr Richard P Fitzgibbons, 2024-01-15 This new edition offers new case studies, new empirical evaluation, modern philosophical roots of forgiveness therapy, and new measurement techniques. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: The Recovery Book Al J. Mooney, Catherine Dold, Howard Eisenberg, 2014-09-09 “A classic. Read it. Use it. It can help guide you step by step into the bright light of the world of recovery.” —from the Foreword by Harry Haroutunian, M.D., Physician Director, Betty Ford Center “The Recovery Book is the Bible of recovery. Everything you need to know you will find in here.” —Neil Scott, host, Recovery Coast to Coast radio Hope, support, and a clear road map for people with drug or alcohol addiction. Announcing a completely revised and updated second edition of The Recovery Book, the Bible of addiction recovery. The Recovery Book provides a direct and easy-to-follow road map to every step in the recovery process, from the momentous decision to quit to the emotional, physical, and spiritual issues that arise along the way. Its comprehensive and effective advice speaks to people with addiction, their loved ones, and addiction professionals who need a proven, trusted resource and a supportive voice. The new edition of The Recovery Book features the revolutionary Recovery Zone System, which divides a life in recovery into three chronological zones and provides guidance on exactly what to do in each zone. First is the Red Zone, where the reader is encouraged to stop everything, activate their recovery and save their life. Next is the Yellow Zone, where the reader can begin to rebuild a life that was torn apart by addiction. Finally, the reader reaches the Green Zone, where he can enjoy a life a recovery and help others. Readers also learn how to use the Recovery Zone ReCheck, a simple, yet very effective relapse prevention tool. The Recovery Zone System works hand-in-hand with the 12-step philosophy and all other recovery methods. In addition, The Recovery Book covers new knowledge about addiction mechanisms and neuroplasticity, explaining how alcohol and drugs alter the brain. The authors outline a simple daily practice, called TAMERS, that helps people to use those same processes to “remold their brains” around recovery, eventually making sobriety a routine way of life. Written by Al J. Mooney, M.D., a recovery activist who speaks internationally on recovery, and health journalists Catherine Dold and Howard Eisenberg, The Recovery Book covers all the latest in addiction science and recovery methods. In 26 chapters and over 600 pages, The Recovery Book tackles issues such as: Committing to Recovery: Identifying and accepting the problem; deciding to get sober. Treatment Options: Extensive information on all current options, and how to choose a program. AA and other 12-Step Fellowships: How to get involved in a mutual-support group and what it can do for you. Addiction Science and Neuroplasticity: How alcohol and drugs alter pathways in the brain, and how to use the same processes to remold the brain around recovery. Relapse Prevention: The Recovery Zone ReCheck, a simple new technique to anticipate and avoid relapses. Rebuilding Your Life: How to handle relationships, socializing, work, education, and finances. Physical and Mental Health: Tips for getting healthy; how to handle common ailments. Pain Control: How to deal with pain in recovery; how to avoid a relapse if you need pain control for surgery or emergency care. Family and Friends: How you can help a loved one with addiction, and how you can help yourself. Raising Substance-Free Kids: How to “addiction-proof” your child. The Epidemic of Prescription Drugs: Now a bigger problem than illegal drugs. Dr. Al J. Mooney has been helping alcoholics and addicts get their lives back for more than thirty years, using both his professional and personal experiences at his family’s treatment center, Willingway, and most recently through his work as medical director for The Healing Place of Wake County (NC), a homeless shelter. The Recovery Book will help millions gain control of their mind, their body, their life, and their happiness. www.TheRecoveryBook.com |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: 12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends Allen Berger, 2013-05-28 Did you know there are hidden rewards to making amends? Without a willingness to experience our painful feelings, we can never grow and mature into the person we'd like to be. We can never reach our potential. We can never become our true-self. To grow, we must stay in close contact with our experience, whatever it is. We need to stay in close contact with how we behaved in our relationships in order to make a thorough list of those we have harmed. We must face the wrongs we have done without running away from the truth. If we were rigorously honest with ourselves while making the list of people we had harmed, we probably felt one or more of the following feelings: anxiety, shame, discomfort, or guilt. This is exactly what we were suppose to feel. We were learning that we don't have to feel comfortable to be OK. In fact, another hidden reward is that the more willing we are to feel uncomfortable the more comfortable we become. Yes, another paradox! One of the many hidden rewards in working Steps 8,9, and 10 is to stay in close contact with our experience so we can learn from it. This self-understanding is at the heart of self-forgiveness and emotional recovery. --Excerpted from 12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Eating Disorders Anonymous Eating Disorders Anonymous (EDA), 2016-11-21 Eating Disorders Anonymous: The Story of How We Recovered from Our Eating Disorders presents the accumulated experience, strength, and hope of many who have followed a Twelve-Step approach to recover from their eating disorders. Eating Disorders Anonymous (EDA), founded by sober members of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), have produced a work that emulates the “Big Book” in style and substance. EDA respects the pioneering work of AA while expanding its Twelve-Step message of hope to include those who are religious or seek a spiritual solution, and for those who are not and may be more comfortable substituting “higher purpose” for the traditional “Higher Power.” Further, the EDA approach embraces the development and maintenance of balance and perspective, rather than abstinence, as the goal of recovery. Initial chapters provide clear directions on how to establish a foothold in recovery by offering one of the founder’s story of hope, and collective voices tell why EDA is suitable for readers with any type of problem eating, including: anorexia nervosa, bulimia, binge eating, emotional eating, and orthorexia. The text then explains how to use the Twelve Steps to develop a durable and resilient way of thinking and acting that is free of eating disordered thoughts and behaviors, including how to pay it forward so that others might have hope of recovery. In the second half of the text, individual contributors share their experiences, describing what it was like to have an eating disorder, what happened that enabled them to make a start in recovery, and what it is like to be in recovery. Like the “Big Book,” these stories are in three sections: Pioneers of EDA, They Stopped in Time, and They Lost Nearly All. Readers using the Twelve Steps to recover from other issues will find the process consistent and reinforcing of their experiences, yet the EDA approach offers novel ideas and specific guidance for those struggling with food, weight and body image issues. Letters of support from three, highly-regarded medical professionals and two, well-known recovery advocates offer reassurance that EDA’s approach is consistent with that supported by medical research and standards in the field of eating disorders treatment. Intended as standard reading for members who participate in EDA groups throughout the world, this book is accessible and appropriate for anyone who wants to recover from an eating disorder or from issues related to food, weight, and body image. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: I Don't Want to Talk About It Terrence Real, 1999-03-11 A bestseller for over 20 years, I Don’t Want to Talk About It is a groundbreaking and hopeful guide to understanding and destigmatizing male depression, essential not only for men who may be suffering but for the people who love them. Twenty years of experience treating men and their families has convinced psychotherapist Terrence Real that depression is a silent epidemic in men—that men hide their condition from family, friends, and themselves to avoid the stigma of depression’s “un-manliness.” Problems that we think of as typically male—difficulty with intimacy, workaholism, alcoholism, abusive behavior, and rage—are really attempts to escape depression. And these escape attempts only hurt the people men love and pass their condition on to their children. This groundbreaking book is the “pathway out of darkness” that these men and their families seek. Real reveals how men can unearth their pain, heal themselves, restore relationships, and break the legacy of abuse. He mixes penetrating analysis with compelling tales of his patients and even his own experiences with depression as the son of a violent, depressed father and the father of two young sons. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Sex in Recovery Jennifer Matesa, 2016-09-01 Healthy sexuality within the context of recovery is rarely talked about openly, in part because the larger culture restricts the space required to name our experiences in open, honest ways. Matesa gives us that space by bringing the language of recovery to this more hidden part of our healing, allowing us to truly “practice these principles in all our affairs. Sexuality in the context of recovery is rarely talked about openly, in part because our broader culture may inhibit us from sharing our true experiences. For some, the prospect of sober sex feels like uncharted waters—in the past, we’ve rarely had sex without first numbing ourselves with drugs and alcohol. What does it mean to have an intimate relationship in sobriety? Exploring that question deepens our recovery journey. With this groundbreaking work, Jennifer Matesa uncovers the challenges real people encounter when they start taking their clothes off—without drinking or using in order to do so. Providing readers “a meeting between the covers,” Matesa blends first-person accounts bravely shared by diverse members of the recovery community, insights from experts, and her own perspectives. The result is a book that creates a space for a vital, new dialogue about sexuality and intimacy. As we find a common language for this more hidden aspect of our healing, we can truly “practice these principles in all our affairs.” |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: How to Quit Drinking Without AA, Revised 2nd Edition Jerry Dorsman, 1997-10-01 Now You Can Take Control of Your Own Recovery Process Alcoholics Anonymous is not the only answer or even the best answer for many people. In fact, seven of every eight people who start AA's 12-step program abandon it within three years. Fortuanately, there are more effective ways to quit drinking—proven methods that will help you be successful on your own terms. Inside this life-affirming book is the new beginning you're looking for. Certified addictions counselor and 16-year recovering alcoholic Jerry Dorsman offers more than 100 proven techniques to gain control of your recovery. His self-help approach includes the best: ·Step-by-step instructions for breaking the habit ·Foods to help you beat the cravings ·Methods for internal cleansing and detox ·Nutrition information for rebuilding your health ·And much more! A thorough approach backed with practical guidelines and techniques.—Addiction and Recovery Magazine The right blend of substance and simplicity. Bubbling with resources.—Natural Health magazine |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets Marsha M. Linehan, 2014-10-28 Featuring more than 225 user-friendly handouts and worksheets, this is an essential resource for clients learning dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) skills, and those who treat them. All of the handouts and worksheets discussed in Marsha M. Linehan's DBT Skills Training Manual, Second Edition, are provided, together with brief introductions to each module written expressly for clients. Originally developed to treat borderline personality disorder, DBT has been demonstrated effective in treatment of a wide range of psychological and emotional problems. No single skills training program will include all of the handouts and worksheets in this book; clients get quick, easy access to the tools recommended to meet their particular needs. The 8 1/2 x 11 format and spiral binding facilitate photocopying. Purchasers also get access to a webpage where they can download and print additional copies of the handouts and worksheets. Mental health professionals, see also the author's DBT Skills Training Manual, Second Edition, which provides complete instructions for teaching the skills. Also available: Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder, the authoritative presentation of DBT, and Linehan's instructive skills training DVDs for clients--Crisis Survival Skills: Part One and This One Moment. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: TIP 35: Enhancing Motivation for Change in Substance Use Disorder Treatment (Updated 2019) U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2019-11-19 Motivation is key to substance use behavior change. Counselors can support clients' movement toward positive changes in their substance use by identifying and enhancing motivation that already exists. Motivational approaches are based on the principles of person-centered counseling. Counselors' use of empathy, not authority and power, is key to enhancing clients' motivation to change. Clients are experts in their own recovery from SUDs. Counselors should engage them in collaborative partnerships. Ambivalence about change is normal. Resistance to change is an expression of ambivalence about change, not a client trait or characteristic. Confrontational approaches increase client resistance and discord in the counseling relationship. Motivational approaches explore ambivalence in a nonjudgmental and compassionate way. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Recovery Russell Brand, 2017-10-03 A guide to all kinds of addiction from a star who has struggled with heroin, alcohol, sex, fame, food and eBay, that will help addicts and their loved ones make the first steps into recovery “This manual for self-realization comes not from a mountain but from the mud...My qualification is not that I am better than you but I am worse.” —Russell Brand With a rare mix of honesty, humor, and compassion, comedian and movie star Russell Brand mines his own wild story and shares the advice and wisdom he has gained through his fourteen years of recovery. Brand speaks to those suffering along the full spectrum of addiction—from drugs, alcohol, caffeine, and sugar addictions to addictions to work, stress, bad relationships, digital media, and fame. Brand understands that addiction can take many shapes and sizes and how the process of staying clean, sane, and unhooked is a daily activity. He believes that the question is not “Why are you addicted?” but What pain is your addiction masking? Why are you running—into the wrong job, the wrong life, the wrong person’s arms? Russell has been in all the twelve-step fellowships going, he’s started his own men’s group, he’s a therapy regular and a practiced yogi—and while he’s worked on this material as part of his comedy and previous bestsellers, he’s never before shared the tools that really took him out of it, that keep him clean and clear. Here he provides not only a recovery plan, but an attempt to make sense of the ailing world. |
| emotional sobriety worksheets: Don't Let the Bastards Grind You Down Georgia W., 2009 No matter what happens, you don't have to pick up a drink or drug today. These words tend to strike fear in the hearts of many alcoholics and addicts who are new to recovery, because just one day without booze or drugs may as well be an eternity. It can seem like an impossible task to get through twenty-four hours, never mind a week or a month - so just how do we get that proverbial monkey off our back? This book is full of suggestions that can work for anyone who is new to recovery or trying to get clean and sober again. The author has drawn on her own experiences and that of others in early recovery to determine the 'Fifty Things Every Alcoholic and Addict Should Know, ' including: The First Thirty Days - What to expect and how to get through it Things to Avoid - Protecting your recovery and coping with stress Relapse - Warning signs and moving forward if it happens Family - How to include them and re-build relationship Dating in Recovery - The not so good, the bad and the ugly Dry Drunk - How not to be one Twelve Step Programs - How they work and what you should know If you have a substance abuse problem and want to quit or are new to sobriety and don't know what to expect, read this book. It's different, down to earth and a very easy read. 'Don't Let the Bastards Grind You Down is not your typical recovery book. - Tom Chenault, Radio Talk Show Host and Recovering Alcoholic. |
Emotional sobriety is not about being free of emotions. It’s about ...
emotional sobriety as resilience, wisdom and balance. The need to reinforce alcoholics’ emotional sobriety was recognised in the early years of traditional recovery fellowships.
Use this guide as a sober resource for tools, tips, worksheets,
Use this guide as a sober resource for tools, tips, worksheets, & more to support you in your recovery journey. Sobriety is defined as “the quality or state of being sober”. However, for …
What Is Emotional Sobriety? - Ineffable Living
Emotional sobriety is the capacity to experience life fully with a resilient, resourceful state of well-being. You’re emotionally sober when you feel comfortable in your own skin and at peace with …
- The 12 Steps of Recovery - SAVN Sobriety Workbook
Answer YES or NO to the following questions. 1. Do you lose time from work due to drinking/using? 2. Is drinking/using making your home life unhappy? 3. Do you drink/use …
Emotional Sobriety Part II - Allen Berger, PhD
Foster emotional sobriety and freedom. Create a passion and joy for living. Heighten our awareness. Create authenticity and flexibility. Encourage an acceptance of our individuality …
The Emotional Sobriety Inventory - Allen Berger, PhD
The Emotional Sobriety Inventory - Revised (2014) ! Allen Berger, Ph.D. ! ! To Identify Your Unenforceable Rule, Answer the Following Question : What should they have thought, or done, …
EMOTIONAL PRESSURES IN SUBSTANCE ABUSE
In this lesson, you’re invited to examine some of the underlying emotions that may contribute to substance use and relapse. Write an account of any emotional struggles you have had in the …
worksheets, etc. SFR - Love First
If you are the family member or friend, complete the “Recovery Launch Plan for Emotional Sobriety.” This is designed for family recovering - moving out of crisis and disturbed emotions …
About Emotional Sobriety - 12 STEP SPIRITUALITY
10 Nov 2012 · Emotional Sobriety • Some call these signs of a dry drunk syndrome. • Feelings of superiority – When a recovering alcoholic fails to achieve sober realism, he or she exaggerates …
Fourth Step Worksheets Guides and 12 Steps Study Work Sheets
There is much more to sobriety than having the obsession for alcohol removed. Sober isn’t much fun - unless we can learn to be happy and thriving while sober. To be happy WHILE sober …
Emotional Sobriety and The Twelve Steps of AA - Allen Berger, PhD
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, 1952 - 1981. The therapeutic value of working the Twelve Steps is optimal living based on emotional sobriety. This is achieved through creating a new …
10th step daily inventory - Emotional Sobriety And Food
Complete this inventory at the end of any day, especially if you don't feel right. If you run out of space in any box, continue on other side. Was I... RESENTFUL? Of who? SELFISH? How? …
Emotional Sobriety - Good Life Therapy
Emotional Sobriety goes beyond being free from your addiction. It includes having a sense of inner harmony, a positive connection to yourself and others, and a sense of fulfilled purpose …
The House of Sobriety: Emotional - DHMC and Clinics
How addiction impacts emotional health: • The inability to feel: we feel numb, distant or disconnected from our feelings • Difficulty expressing love or caring for another person • …
Emotional Sobriety - Recovery HQ
Emotional Sobriety: By learning how to discipline, control & create our desired emotional states -- and eliminate our undesired emotional states -- we can turn Polar Bears into Polar Puppies …
SOBRIETY BUCKET LIST - mind remake project
Use this worksheet to create a recovery bucket list: things that you could never do while using, now possible in sobriety. Review and add to your bucket list frequently. Ideally, the list will …
12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety - Allen Berger, PhD
“Emotional sobriety is a process that transcends a consciousness of emotional dependency moving us towards a consciousness of emotional freedom.” Allen Berger, Ph.D. (2022) In order …
DEVELOPING YOUR RECOVERY ATTITUDE (PART A)
Use the following questions to help you identify and consider a few simple things you can do to move yourself a couple steps in a more positive direction. 1. Becoming More Accepting. …
CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY
In this worksheet, discover key areas focus on in order to establish closeness and connection. Your addiction has likely had a negative impact on your relationships. Examine times where …
EMOTIONAL SOBRIETY - illustrated steps
How to translate a right mental conviction into a right emotional result, and so into easy, happy and good living. Well, that's not only the neurotic's problem, it's the problem of life itself for all of …
Emotional sobriety is not about being free of emotions. It’s about ...
emotional sobriety as resilience, wisdom and balance. The need to reinforce alcoholics’ emotional sobriety was recognised in the early years of traditional recovery fellowships.
Use this guide as a sober resource for tools, tips, worksheets,
Use this guide as a sober resource for tools, tips, worksheets, & more to support you in your recovery journey. Sobriety is defined as “the quality or state of being sober”. However, for those in recovery this definition goes beyond that.
What Is Emotional Sobriety? - Ineffable Living
Emotional sobriety is the capacity to experience life fully with a resilient, resourceful state of well-being. You’re emotionally sober when you feel comfortable in your own skin and at peace with who you are. It is when you feel most like yourself. That could include expressing yourself.
- The 12 Steps of Recovery - SAVN Sobriety Workbook
Answer YES or NO to the following questions. 1. Do you lose time from work due to drinking/using? 2. Is drinking/using making your home life unhappy? 3. Do you drink/use because you are shy around other people? 4. Is your drinking/using affecting your reputation? 5. Have you ever felt guilt or remorse after drinking/using? 6.
Emotional Sobriety Part II - Allen Berger, PhD
Foster emotional sobriety and freedom. Create a passion and joy for living. Heighten our awareness. Create authenticity and flexibility. Encourage an acceptance of our individuality and that of others. The Effects of Nourishing Attitudes
The Emotional Sobriety Inventory - Allen Berger, PhD
The Emotional Sobriety Inventory - Revised (2014) ! Allen Berger, Ph.D. ! ! To Identify Your Unenforceable Rule, Answer the Following Question : What should they have thought, or done, or
worksheets, etc. SFR - Love First
If you are the family member or friend, complete the “Recovery Launch Plan for Emotional Sobriety.” This is designed for family recovering - moving out of crisis and disturbed emotions and into balance and emotional equilibrium. This is a simple process of using a checklist (page 225).
EMOTIONAL PRESSURES IN SUBSTANCE ABUSE
In this lesson, you’re invited to examine some of the underlying emotions that may contribute to substance use and relapse. Write an account of any emotional struggles you have had in the past such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, bipolar illness, …
Fourth Step Worksheets Guides and 12 Steps Study Work Sheets …
There is much more to sobriety than having the obsession for alcohol removed. Sober isn’t much fun - unless we can learn to be happy and thriving while sober. To be happy WHILE sober requires emotional sobriety. The Fourth Step is ONE of our first action step towards PHYSICAL and EMOTIONAL sobriety. We are in a process to recreate our lives.
About Emotional Sobriety - 12 STEP SPIRITUALITY
10 Nov 2012 · Emotional Sobriety • Some call these signs of a dry drunk syndrome. • Feelings of superiority – When a recovering alcoholic fails to achieve sober realism, he or she exaggerates his sense of self-importance. • Intolerance – An alcoholic is prone to make inappropriate evaluations and tend to
Emotional Sobriety and The Twelve Steps of AA - Allen Berger, PhD
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, 1952 - 1981. The therapeutic value of working the Twelve Steps is optimal living based on emotional sobriety. This is achieved through creating a new relationship and experience with our problem, with our self, and with others.
10th step daily inventory - Emotional Sobriety And Food
Complete this inventory at the end of any day, especially if you don't feel right. If you run out of space in any box, continue on other side. Was I... RESENTFUL? Of who? SELFISH? How? DISHONEST? How? FEARFUL? Of what? Am I obsessing about anything? Am I keeping any secrets? Did I cause any harm? Do I owe any apologies?
Emotional Sobriety - Good Life Therapy
Emotional Sobriety goes beyond being free from your addiction. It includes having a sense of inner harmony, a positive connection to yourself and others, and a sense of fulfilled purpose and direction. Below are 8 ways you can begin to enhance your emotional sobriety.... 1.Choose Abstinence as a way of life
The House of Sobriety: Emotional - DHMC and Clinics
How addiction impacts emotional health: • The inability to feel: we feel numb, distant or disconnected from our feelings • Difficulty expressing love or caring for another person • Emotional Isolation: what you feel is never communicated to anyone • Feeling alone: it’s just you and your addiction in a hostile world
Emotional Sobriety - Recovery HQ
Emotional Sobriety: By learning how to discipline, control & create our desired emotional states -- and eliminate our undesired emotional states -- we can turn Polar Bears into Polar Puppies without Pills, Pot or Alcohol.
SOBRIETY BUCKET LIST - mind remake project
Use this worksheet to create a recovery bucket list: things that you could never do while using, now possible in sobriety. Review and add to your bucket list frequently. Ideally, the list will motivate you to stay clean while serving as a reminder that self-care and leisure are important aspects of recovery.
12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety - Allen Berger, PhD
“Emotional sobriety is a process that transcends a consciousness of emotional dependency moving us towards a consciousness of emotional freedom.” Allen Berger, Ph.D. (2022) In order to transcend our emotional dependence we must become aware of how our behavior is determined by the gravitational forces created by this “almost absolute
DEVELOPING YOUR RECOVERY ATTITUDE (PART A)
Use the following questions to help you identify and consider a few simple things you can do to move yourself a couple steps in a more positive direction. 1. Becoming More Accepting. …
CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS IN RECOVERY
In this worksheet, discover key areas focus on in order to establish closeness and connection. Your addiction has likely had a negative impact on your relationships. Examine times where you have compromised, damaged, or destroyed friendships and …
EMOTIONAL SOBRIETY - illustrated steps
How to translate a right mental conviction into a right emotional result, and so into easy, happy and good living. Well, that's not only the neurotic's problem, it's the problem of life itself for all of us
